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Don’t Quit


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by Vinamra….

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,  

When the road you’re truding seems all uphill,  

When the funds are low, when the debts are high,  

And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,  

When care is pressing you a bit,

Rest if you must, but don’t you quit.  

Life is queer with its twists and turns,

As everyone of us sometimes learns,  

Don’t give up though the pace seems slow,

You may succeed with an blow.  

Success is failure turned inside out,  

The silver tints of the clouds of doubt,

And you can never tell how close you are,

It may be near, when it seems so far;

So stick to the fight when you’re the hardest hit,

It’s when things seem worst, that you must not quit……    

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Posted by on July 30, 2012 in Life & It's Importance

 

What to name this relation?


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by Susheel Sylaja….

PRAWIN you are one of the great thing, that happened to me in my life. I am placing the words that I thought about you in your presence and in your absence..

It’s really an honor to me, to work with you and be a part your life’s journey.

Do we choose relations in our lives?

I didn’t choose my parents, my brothers, my sisters they happened to be in my life. Many relations happened in my life, the same way you happened. But you made a difference by how best you happened. I trust and love my parents because my blood. I trust, love and respect you though you are not my blood.

What have you given me that make me respect u so much…..?

Although like every human I want to love and be loved, I fear both. But u made me realize “trust makes you never feel afraid of being used, being misunderstood or being hurt but just makes feel free to give oneself fully to beloved one.

I watch you when you are in front of me, “I perceive how selfless you are, how open you are, how close you are to others and how sweet behind the harsh words”.

I perceive how you love all young and elders not just to be nice but because you see they have something to value.

I perceive how you balance happiness, sadness and humility.

I wonder how you overlook the praises when everyone around shower on you.

I feel warm by your presence and your words.

I feel accepted whenever I’m near you, even though I’m far from your way of perceptions, principles and values.

At times you give hope to laugh away darkness. At times you make smile and sometimes cry.

At times you’ll be a reason to make a step for glory.

You are neither world famous but been world to all who invited you into their lives

“I have never met someone like you who has so much pride and respect for yourself and your loved ones”.

One can never know what may come in life but I feel u never give up your faith. The reason is you make yourself a stick to guide where you want to go.

I one among your memories,

“Why it happened? How it happened? Where does it go?

Not that it mattered. Because” knowing, you love us all for we are beings, i.e humans. Can I name this relation?”Just by word love.

The respect, trust and love growing for you each day. Where do I get the words from, when you impact to make clear ambitions, goals and make life more beautiful?

I am making no expectations from you.

I am not waiting for anything in return. All I want is you live with health and happiness forever…..

You are really good in the way you are, please lead the life as per your expectations. I need not suggest or advice you, because you are PRAWIN.

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Posted by on July 29, 2012 in Family & Relationship

 

Don’t Get Misguided


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by Shanmukhi…..

Mothers are the best gift that has given to us by god. Having them is such a thankful and splendid treasure in our life.

I am Shanmukhi; Today I would like to share the mistake that I made in my life.

I lost my Father when I was 14 years old. I know how my mom struggled all these years to make me and my sister stand in this respectable position. I only recently realized that I hated my mother because by hearing most of the friends words.

Growing up in a single parent household is challenging because I always felt so dependent on my mother for survival. But the older I get the more I see that my life is suffering because of the friends who misguided me from my mom.

Till my intermediate I had a decent relationship with my mother. After joining into b tech, I got 3 new friends sinduja, ravi, and pavani. I love them all because they shown the love and I was impressed by their caring. In the initial days they are so friendly and they used to respect my likes & dislikes. Among them Mr. Ravi love me lot. He expressed his interest to marry, but I told I am sorry, but also he used to take care of me.

From then each & every decision in my life is taken by them. After few days, they started pointing my weakness & negatives in me, but I never spoke anything, because that time I have a fear of losing them. My friends have always said bad things about my life, restrictions posed by mom, many like that and their way of words influenced me. I have never been able to connect emotionally with my mother.

I don’t know why my friends never liked my mom? They used to ask me, to avoid my mother for number of reasons. I thought their words are correct and all these years I avoided her. They used to say that, why do you talk to your mother for long time avoid her and made me stay away from my mom. I believed their words. I followed their words blindly. Even my dressing, way of behavior, eating habits, life style everything was decided by them. At one point I felt really unhappy with my life. I was not given any chance to express my feelings. They used to ask me to share everything, but when I tried none of them received or cared of my emotions & my hearts pain.

After my education I came to Bangalore job search. Even my professional was influenced by them. They used to compel me even in attending interviews. I simply did whatever they told to me.

Now I am really feeling bad of my past. If I look back and see, I am nowhere in my life, not even my mother. Even now I don’t understand how I simply believed such senseless and unusual friends who took away my personal life from my mother, who’s everything to me.

Recently by seeing few incidents, I realized what mistake I made.  Now I feel like moving back to mom.

Few days back I am at a cross roads in my life. And I feel more lost than ever. And the fact that my friends, who seem so settled in their lives, have misguided me. I can’t complain about anyone. It’s my mistake to disregard my mother by listening such stupid words.

For many years my mother is alone looking eagerly for my arrival. Now I am feeling really ashamed of the things that I have done. I can’t forgive myself. I even feel that I don’t have eligibility to live on the Earth. I know how really my mom worked to take care me and my brother. She spent many sleepless nights crying for us. I don’t know how I have done this to her.
My advice to everyone is that, please don’t listen anyone words and disregard your parents and do the same mistake I have done. Parents are everything.

I know I am miles away from my mother now. But, I will never forget what she gave me have made me special in this world. You never left hopes on me, your belief and trust made me achieve all what I have now, but I never cared you and received you with love. Please Forgive Me Mom.. I thank you for all your unconditional love, care, and numerous uncountable things you have given me in life. I wish you all health, happiness and comfort forever. Please never leave me mom.

Please forgive me mom. I will hold your hand; I will take care of you till my last breath.

I have decided to keep my mother in my heart with me  and welcome unconditional love and support into my life.

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Posted by on July 19, 2012 in Experiences of Life.

 

Are you Proud to be a Woman?


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by Susheel Sylaja.

Woman holds many different roles in one’s life as mother, wife,  sister,  teacher, friend …..

In ancient India, women occupied a very important position, in fact a superior position to, men. It is a culture whose only words for strength and power are feminine -“Shakti” means “power” and “strength.” All male power comes from the

Take a pride that we have come out of the culture where women were seen as just reproducers. Today she openly displays her power, knowledge and skill, receiving public recognition and honor.

Woman often fight for her home, her people. Yet she faces humiliation in every aspect of her life.

A home maker says “he come home drunk and kick me with his boots.” Who knew when I met the love of my life I would have such blows.

A working woman says” He was irate when he came home. He asked to clean up the mess so he could rest. I thought to prepare a cup of tea for him and was about to move to kitchen. He thought I was ignoring him, He hit me in my eye.”

What kind of thinking make us behave so badly? What makes us of believe we have a right to hit woman?

Why does a woman be helpless victim at men mercy?

Is that the attitude of common man who:

”the difference between mother and wife is –we take life from the former and get into the life of latter”

Is it that “we are grown up in a society which believe men are superior to women”

Let us see the excuses that men make from millennia to hit a women:

“I am very short-tempered there’s a lot of stress and problems in my life so it comes out like this.”

“I get violent with my wife because I love her so much my love for her comes out in this way.”

“I become angry because she don’t understand me.”

“I don’t like her because she tries to restrict me in all the things.”

Then why don’t you accept if your wife also show the love and anger in same way as u do.Realize the influence of such acts on family.

God created men and women to build life together and to complete one another all lifelong.

Women are self-sacrificing, gentle, patient, caring… Recognize the importance of her in our lives.

God made us special
He made our arms to control the weight of world.
He made our shoulders, our childs feel happiness on them
.

In modern world women degrading themselves as well as allowing others to degrade them.

Are we ,women aware of our power, values, rights and proper position in the family, in work place and in the society ?

Are you proud to be a women? 

Please contribute your views, ideas, thoughts, demands,worries and happiness here. Gentle men , you can also take part in this.

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Posted by on July 6, 2012 in Life & It's Importance

 

I LOVE MY PAA


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

By Varalakshmi Davu..

FATHER is the one who makes their children feel protected..

 My Father is the world to me..

He is as as sweet as nectar, as brave as a lion. v1-001

He is a very strong man who worked hard to give me and my Sister a good life. He was always there when we needed him, He is my teacher..

He follows our interests and cooperate with us in play or doing tasks rather than forcing us to follow his own preferences and He responds quickly to the needs expressed by us..

 Unforgettable Moment

When I’m in 5th class we constructed our own house  at that time  we had a money problem, my dad was in a hurry to go out then I went with my sis and hand over all our savings for construction on the spot my dad kissed me on my forehead and tears were rolled down from his eyes..

My dad is my role model. There were many struggles and difficult times, but out of it all, my dad emerged. I don’t believe that any man could ever love me as much as my dad does..

He was always punctual, honest and he has a good sense of humor.. When I’m in home he usually crack jokes only on me..

In My Next Birth I want you as my child…And I enjoy being with you..

Father is Important in Children life Bcoz he is the only person who can give healthier family as well as healthier future for his child..

For the best dad who always had a smile for me.
Though we may be far apart right now,
But here’s a big hug and kiss for you
To let you know how special you are
Daddy, I love you so, You are my inspiration, You are a picture of strength and serenity, And I shall love you till eternity!
Happy Fathers Day

Thanks to you Father for all the care, sacrifices and affection.

 Please feel free to share your story and any lessons you learned, you experienced, you came across in your life in the comments below.

 

 
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Posted by on July 1, 2012 in Family & Relationship

 
 
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