Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….
The article was written by Susheel Sylaja.
Woman holds many different roles in one’s life as mother, wife, sister, teacher, friend …..
In ancient India, women occupied a very important position, in fact a superior position to, men. It is a culture whose only words for strength and power are feminine -“Shakti” means “power” and “strength.” All male power comes from the
Take a pride that we have come out of the culture where women were seen as just reproducers. Today she openly displays her power, knowledge and skill, receiving public recognition and honor.
Woman often fight for her home, her people. Yet she faces humiliation in every aspect of her life.
A home maker says “he come home drunk and kick me with his boots.” Who knew when I met the love of my life I would have such blows.
A working woman says” He was irate when he came home. He asked to clean up the mess so he could rest. I thought to prepare a cup of tea for him and was about to move to kitchen. He thought I was ignoring him, He hit me in my eye.”
What kind of thinking make us behave so badly? What makes us of believe we have a right to hit woman?
Why does a woman be helpless victim at men mercy?
Is that the attitude of common man who:
”the difference between mother and wife is –we take life from the former and get into the life of latter”
Is it that “we are grown up in a society which believe men are superior to women”
Let us see the excuses that men make from millennia to hit a women:
“I am very short-tempered there’s a lot of stress and problems in my life so it comes out like this.”
“I get violent with my wife because I love her so much my love for her comes out in this way.”
“I become angry because she don’t understand me.”
“I don’t like her because she tries to restrict me in all the things.”
Then why don’t you accept if your wife also show the love and anger in same way as u do.Realize the influence of such acts on family.
God created men and women to build life together and to complete one another all lifelong.
Women are self-sacrificing, gentle, patient, caring… Recognize the importance of her in our lives.
God made us special
He made our arms to control the weight of world.
He made our shoulders, our childs feel happiness on them
In modern world women degrading themselves as well as allowing others to degrade them.
Are we ,women aware of our power, values, rights and proper position in the family, in work place and in the society ?
Are you proud to be a women?
Please contribute your views, ideas, thoughts, demands,worries and happiness here. Gentle men , you can also take part in this.
Please feel free to share your story and any lessons you learned, you experienced , you came across in your life in the comments below.