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About MunnaPrawin

Hello there, I'm MunnaPrawin, and yes, that's my open ID. Allow me to introduce myself as a versatile and accomplished IT professional with over 17 years of international experience. My journey has taken me through roles in Project Management, Product Development, Operations Leadership, Agile Transformation, Personality Development Training, and Quality Assurance Management with a specific focus on Test Automation. Leading teams towards project goals is where I excel, and I'm truly passionate about what I do. This passion serves as a steady source of motivation, driving me to always strive for excellence. At present, I proudly hold the position of Agile Delivery Manager in London. My educational background includes a Masters in Computer Science. Reflecting on my career, I'm immensely grateful for the support and guidance I received when I embarked on this journey back in 2007. My post-graduation experiences led me to work in various domains, including a stint with a Government Organization. Professionally, I'm described as a "people-person." Meeting new individuals and learning about their backgrounds brings me immense joy. I possess the ability to find common ground with strangers and create an environment of comfort. This trait proves invaluable, especially when initiating projects with new clients. Notably, in my previous role, my efforts contributed to customer satisfaction scores that were 15% above the company average. Leadership comes naturally to me. Throughout my career, I've found myself in leadership positions due to my inclination to assist others. Co-workers frequently turn to me for guidance and support, even when I'm not in an official leadership role. This collaborative spirit led to my promotions in my last two roles within a year of joining the company. A results-driven mindset defines my approach. Constantly assessing our progress towards goals and evaluating what it takes to achieve them is second nature. The pressure of these expectations serves as an inspiration and motivator for my team. In recent times, I've been proud to contribute to my team's achievement of shortening our average product time to market by two weeks. In life, the most profound ideas often find expression in the simplest words. I resonate with this saying on multiple occasions. Drawn from the wisdom of diverse writers, bloggers, authors, and Indian greats, I've initiated a blog aimed at sharing valuable insights with the young minds of India, particularly students. Believing that the youth are the torchbearers of tomorrow, my intention is to provide them with guidance, inspiration, and a connection to their heritage. Gratitude fills my heart for my constant companion, Pratyusha, who has been with me every step of the way, enriching every aspect of my life. Ultimately, I attribute my growth and achievements to the people around me. Thank you all for your unwavering support and presence on this journey!

Daddy’s Little Girl ✿ ✿ ✿


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

Article by Cute Daughter of a Lovely father…

Dear Dad,

I’d like to take a minute or two to express my never-ending gratitude for all that you do.

Dad You are my guide, friend, teacher, well wisher, teacher, opponent, strength, weakness. You are everything to me. I’d like to hold your hand till my last breath.

Love You Dad

Being a father is no easy task. A father makes a huge impact on his daughter’s life. He is the first man she says “I love you” to, and the first man to really show her what love is.

To be honest, I can’t remember a time when you weren’t there for me — not only as a father, but as a best friend. As a child, you were my favorite playmate.

From teaching me how to walk or throw a ball, you’ve showed me ways to stand on my own two feet. A dad’s job is not only to protect his little girl, but also to show her how to defend herself when, one day, he is not around.

As much as I want to thank you, I also want to apologize. Raising a teenage girl might be one of the biggest challenges a father goes through. Speaking from my own experience, I’m sorry for any grey hairs I’ve caused you in the past.

Even though we don’t always understand each other, you’re one of the biggest influences in my life.

A father is the one who guides his daughter through life.

Whether it was a school play, sporting event, graduation or any defining moment in my life, you’ve always been one of my biggest fans. Wherever I end up, I hope I make you proud.

Thank you for offering your shoulder to cry during hard times. You comforted me without even saying anything; you put your arm around me and opened your ears to all of my jumbled words and tears. Thank you for patience.

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Thank you for being exactly who you are to my mother, so that I can know in the inner strings of my heart that love exists and that I will find it for myself. Even in my own life when I lost hope, you showed me that love is the strongest force in the universe. Thank you for teaching me to never let go once I find it, and fight for it when I need to.

Every little girl grows up looking up to her dad, but I’ve never stopped. I know there’s no such thing as a perfect dad, but you come pretty close.

I can’t write any more. The tears are falling and the ink is fading. I haven’t really been myself lately​

Thank you for believing, for hoping, for smiling, for laughing, for teaching, for loving, for supporting, for showing, and for praying. In short, thank you for everything. 

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Live A Stress Free LIfe


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

Hello beautiful people,

First I want to apologize for the lack of posts it’s getting towards the end of the year so I’ve been swamped with personal and professional life. So that got me thinking today I should write a post about how to live life under stress and how to manage your life!

“If you ask what is the single most important key to longevity, I would have to say it is avoiding worry, stress and tension. And if you didn’t ask me, I’d still have to say it.”

Stress is a major problem for many people — a hectic, stressful job, a chaotic home life, bills to worry about, heavy syllabus for exams and bad habits such as unhealthy eating, drinking and smokiimages (1)ng can lead to a mountain of stress.

If your life is full of stress, like mine once was, there are some simple things you can do to get your life to a more manageable level.

I won’t guarantee that all of these will work for you. They worked for me, but each person is different. Pick and choose the ones that will work best for you, and give them a try. One at a time.

  • Accept yourself. If you can’t accept the way you are, change it. Because if you are too worried about that extra fat, or your extremely long hair, your other worries will just start building up again. And if you can’t change it, you will have to accept it, because that’s who you are. And you really can’t change it.
  • Be early. I will admit that it’s hard to be early when you have to get 3 kids ready (my brother, sister & Myself.. seriously — try it!). But being late can be very stressful. Try to leave earlier by getting ready earlier, or by scheduling more space between events. Things always take longer than normal, so schedule some buffer time: extra time to get ready, to commute, to do errands before you need to be somewhere, to attend a meeting before another scheduled appointment. If you get somewhere early, it’s good to have some reading material.
  • One thing at a time. This is the simplest and best way to start reducing your stress, and you can start today. Right now. Focus as much as possible on doing one thing at a time. Clear your desk of distractions. Pick something to work on. Need to write a report? Do only that. Remove distractions such as phones and email notifications while you’re working on that report. If you’re going to do email, do only that. This takes practice, and you’ll get urges to do other things. Just keep practicing and you’ll get better at it.
  • Have Good Sleep. If you don’t get enough sleep you end up being touchy and snappy. In order to establish a good rule of thumb for sleep is to go to bed whenever you’re tired, and wake up at the same time each day (weekend or not!). This way, you will get the right amount of sleep!
  • Simplify your schedule. A hectic schedule is a major cause of high stress. Simplify by reducing the number of commitments in your life to just the essential ones. Learn to say no to the rest — and slowly get out of commitments that aren’t beneficial to you. Schedule only a few important things each day, and put space between them. Get out of meetings when they aren’t absolutely essential. Leave room for down time and fun. f57dcd33f9d9605bf44103778254ea29
  • Get moving. Do something each day to be active — walk, hike, play a sport, go for a run, do yoga. It doesn’t have to be grueling to reduce stress. Just move. Have fun doing it.
  • Develop one healthy habit this month. Other than getting active, improving your health overall will help with the stress. But do it one habit at a time. Eat fruits and veggies for snacks. Floss every day. Quit smoking. Cook something healthy for dinner. Drink water instead of soda. One habit at a time.
  • Don’t take things personally. Most of the time, people say things as a joke, and you have to learn to recognize that. And if they really mean it, remember that they probably aren’t even worth your time. (and if it’s someone you are close to who is just mad at you, they probably don’t mean it either)
  • Do something calming. What do you enjoy that calms you down? For many people, it can be the “get moving” activity discussed above. But it could also be taking a nap, or a bath, or reading, or having sex (which can also be considered a “get moving” activity if you do it for longer than 5 minutes). Other people are calmed by housework or gardening. Some people like to meditate, or take a nature walk. Find your calming activity and try to do it each day.
  • Simplify your finances. Finances can be a drain on your energy and a major stressor. If that’s true with you, figure out ways to simplify things. Automate savings and bill payments and debt payments. Spend less by going shopping (at malls or online) much less. Find ways to have fun that don’t involve spending money.
  • Have a blast! Have fun each day, even if it’s just for a few minutes. I like to play with my kids — they take my mind off everything and are really hilarious. I also like to play sports (again, often with my kids). Board games are fun. Sex, again, can be a fun activity. Whatever you choose, be sure to laugh.
  • Get creative. Throwing yourself into a creative activity is another great way to de-stress and to prevent stress. I like writing, but others like to paint or play music or sketch or make pottery or do interior design or build things.
  • Declutter. This is a favorite of mine. I like to take 20-30 minutes and just go through a room, getting rid of stuff we don’t use or need anymore. I look around at anything that’s cluttering up a room, and get rid of it or find a better place for it. When I’m done, I have a nice, peaceful environment for work, study, play, and living. Do this a little at a time — it can be one of your “fun activities”.

I know many of you are in college or high school and are probably facing problems probably working and trying to balance your time as well. I surely don’t have the solution to all of this but I do have some helpful tips.

Tips for Students:  

  • Get a day planner and use it and then get a calendar and use that as we’ll! Knowing when things stockvault-pose-on-the-side-of-the-beach109478are due and what is coming up will help you stay organized and recognize what needs to be done first!
  • Another tip I have is to take breaks don’t try and do everything at once you will loose your mind so take a little break here and there to take a breath, count to ten, listen to a song,or read a few pages I your favorite book. Believe me when you are an overwhelmed that little break can feel like a good nights sleep.
  • Finally my last thing of Advice will give you is to avoid stress once you get in to full blown stress it is very hard to get out of it. I personally get a panicky anxiety feeling when I am over stressed I always need to remember when I start to feel that way I need to walk away for five minutes just because I will get nothing done in that state of mind.

I hope some of these things could help you you all are so smart you can do anything so don’t let stress stop you.

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Posted by on December 7, 2014 in Experiences of Life.

 

I’m So Sorry My Love


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

Article was written by Nikila…

My dear Aryan(name was changed),

I hope you forgive me and, please, read this letter till the end. I just want to say I`m sorry; all I want is to tell you that I made a big mistake when I decided to break up with you and this mistake has made me hurt and cry too much. I get emotional at least 5 times a day and struggle daily to not contact you.

The past three years held some of the greatest moments of my life and it was all because of you. Somewhere along the line I stopped realizing how amazing you were and took you for granted. I cheated and even though I realized I was wrong and ended it I still lied to you. It hurts so much knowing that this pain I’m feeling is coming directly from my actions.  i_miss_u__source.jpg_480_480_0_64000_0_1_0

I know I did wrong, but believe me when I say that I made a mistake, I was confused and unsure of want I wanted. The moment we broke up I realized, in truth, that you are the only who can make me happy…

Please don`t take my apologies as yet another selfish attitude, and as if I`m only thinking about myself; if you`re noble enough to forgive me you`ll find out that I can really make you very happy too!

I know you must be upset and I can perfectly understand why. I`m aware of the extent of my mistake and I`ve even tried to put myself in your shoes. I understand the sad and uneasy situation that I`ve put you through just because of a slip up but mostly because of my childishness and insecurity. But I trust you have a big heart and soul. And I honestly wish you could give me another chance, one last chance to make your feel happy and very much loved.

Please, reply quickly, by letter or by phone!

A kiss filled with love and my most sincere apologies

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STOP GIVING MONEY


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

“Why is sleeping child in the hands of beggars? Have you ever wondered … ”

Please read…..

Most of the Beggars on the busy streets and subways operate in gangs, and to cash people’s sentiments – they even hire babies and drug them to sleep. It is a fact, it has happened and is happening in few places around the world.

941241_571208322924416_802627689_nYou may think you are helping a mother feed her young ones. If so, think about these issues.

A – Thousands of babies are abducted everyday for the begging “business”.
B – Many babies are mutilated and disabled for life to extract sympathy from onlookers.
C – Almost of all of these babies are drugged and incapacitated while being taken out on “business”.
D – A mother will seldom use her children to get alms from someone else. Most of these babies are “rented” on a daily basis from cartels.
E – Not even a paisa of what you give will reach these hapless babies.

If approached by women carrying a baby and begging for money. Please do not give them money.

These women actually make the babies look pathetic so as to try and appeal to the public’s sympathy, by using such babies. I have heard that when one woman takes rest, the baby is handed over to other women, who continue to walk to streets in the hot sun carrying the baby. Such babies are perhaps rented out from beggar to beggar

What You can Do

Simply giving money to the child beggars and their mothers on streets will not help solve the issues with them. If possible, in such cases buy food for the child and even the women carrying the baby but please do not give cash.  I am not against giving money to beggars and believe that we should all show compassion. I am however, totally against the use of babies being used as a begging tool.

If you really want to help those less fortunate kids, provide them a better solution, like offering shelter of the government or NGO organizations.

STOP giving money to anyone carrying a baby. Put a stop to this begging with baby business. Put an end to kidnapping and child abuse.

Travelers are also cautioned to be careful of small children who walk around the streets begging. Some of these children appear to be only five or six years old. There are reports of these children stealing purses and chains etc. and running away in the crowds.

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Posted by on November 14, 2014 in Experiences of Life., Moral Stories

 

✻ღ’✶♪.✻ ✿ Are we really free in India??✿.ღ’✶♪*.✻


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

Article by Common MAN…

The nation is celebrating the 68th Independence Day. The people are ready to express their patriotic feelings in one way or the other. But the common MAN are still waiting to see a free India.

On 15th August, I suddenly see the TV channels, radio stations, POLITICindia-bleeding-_4IANS and even the magazines and the newspapers off loading information about Independence day, freedom and patriotism, they reinforce the fact that each one of us should really take pride in the fact that we are a free country.  

I just wonder, how short is the public memory or is it just me who feels in a country where every second day there is a case of honour killing, caste discrimination, regional discrimination and words scheduled caste and dalits are still a common parlance, what freedom are really talking about.

If i forget the larger picture, even after 68 yrs of independence WOMEN dont feel like stepping out of the house alone after 8, what freedom are we talking about, when there is a rape happening every 10 minutes somewhere in the country, why are we even celebrating this freedom?

I just wonder, politicians fighting like STRAY DOGS, saying these people don’t belong to our region or don’t belong to our place, then where we are from?

I don’t think so we are free at all, especially for a woman in this country being free is an after thought as there are too many things that is still keeping women in dark, But on a contrary note also people here are free to indulge in as much bribery & corruption, as one likes. There, the words Dalits, caste, religion etc. don’t mean anything. You can even commit murder & get away with it.

Are we really free in India??

india-bleeding-pradnya-chavanIndependence is a word useful for politicians on August 15, who take seriously. We all know it by now and there is no sense in acting as if we don’t: August 15 is just another holiday. The malls will be full, new films will be released and the middle class will eat out as if it is not going to get another meal. This day truly illustrates how much in-dependent we have all become: we cannot live without an-other.

The freedom fighters fought for the freedom of the country. Now COMMON MAN is fighting for his own Freedom in the country with mean Politicians & Politics.

Whatever happens, As an INDIAN I SAY

KABHI BHI, KAHIN BHI, KUCH BHI MERI JAAN,

YAHI TO HAI MERA BHARAT MAHAAN

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Posted by on August 15, 2014 in Experiences of Life., Technical

 

✿ ATTITUDE MAKES ALL THE DIFFERENCE ✿


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

Article by MATT…

Attitude is such a little thing that makes a major difference.  There are many factors that determine ones success throughout life, however, I strongly believe that having the right attitude towards life, yourself, and others is one of the greatest factors of all. attitude

The right attitude can take you to the top of your profession. The right attitude can build powerful marriages.  The right attitude can create an everlasting legacy.  The right attitude can bring out the best in others.  The right attitude can spark hope in those who are in need.

Some of the biggest achievements in history were made by men and women who understood the importance of attitude.  A good portion of the population will look at these accomplishments and think, “Wow, how in the world did they do that?”  We tend to believe these men and women have been blessed with a special gift over the rest of us.  That there is no way we could ever do something that remarkable.  And it’s that type of mental attitude that will leave you searching and wishing for more in life.  Never creating and leaving a legacy of your own.

YOU have ultimate control over your attitude.  YOU aren’t any different from the next person.  YOU have the ability to live your dream and create whatever it is you desire.  It all comes down to YOUR attitude.  Why is it that some can earn an extraordinary amount of money with very little education?  Why can some defeat such odds and go on to be some of the worlds greatest achievers?  Simple.  The attitude they chose.  You have two options.  To choose a positive and resilient attitude despite any hardship you encounter along the way, or to allow life’s minor mishaps to negatively shape your attitude.  And what you choose will greatly determine the quality of life your life.

When you choose a positive attitude, no goal or dream is out of reach.  If it has been done before, then you darn well know you can do the same.  Someone with a negative attitude loves to play the blame game.  The economy limits their financial goals.  Circumstances limit their vision for what they can accomplish.

The only thing that separates you from those who are living a happy, abundant, and successful life is whether you decide to choose a positive or negative attitude.  Take advantage of your power and the ability to choose whatever attitude it is you desire.  But just know that such a little thing…… makes such a major difference!

Attitude affects our every aspect of life. Happiness is the product of our attitudes because right attitudes will produce right actions. Only right actions can make us happy. If we have the right attitude we will see the invisible, feel the intangible and achieve the impossible. Having positive attitudes is a sure way to succeed in life. It is a sure way to long and cheerful life.

Let us opt for a great attitude to have a great life.

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Posted by on July 25, 2014 in Life & It's Importance

 

My First Love called me Munna


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

Yesterday, during one of discussions with my Stakeholders, I was asked how did I have a unique Surname  Munna. I simply smiled at him and continued my discussion. He interrupted me and asked the same question again.

Unknowingly, an angel called Nikki flashed in my mind. Nikki, she is the amazing girl who entered and left my life  unknowingly. In the last 20 years, thousands of people asked me the same question during my colleges days, Trainings, guest lectures, office place etc. Answer is simple and straightforward. My First love used to call me by name Munna.MunnaPrawinI love you”- a sacred phrase that was already made before each of us was born. It may sometimes be hard to explain, hard to say and hard to express, but it will always be easy to feel. I didn’t believe in such feeling as love ever, not so long until I met somebody, who changed my life and made me utter these words with no doubt, no hesitation, just love. First love is an experience that you get only once because it’s filled with emotions that you feel for the very first time. Enter into your life, from out of nowhere, this new person. BOOM! You can’t explain quite why, but you just know there’s something super-special about them. Thrilling, perhaps. Your beloved is an angel.

When Nikki was two days shy of her 15th birthday the night I kissed her for the first time. Her name was Nikki. It was July 18, 1999, and as we are walking back from school in the evening, I stopped her by holding the hand and kissed her — full-mouthed and everything I dreamed of and more. She was so shocked and inexperienced that she kept her eyes open at first, not sure what to do or where to put her hands. All I can feel is good, like eating ice cream on a summer night.

I had never been kissed before. Not a peck on the cheek. The kiss led to more dates, made us more close that and my girl used to hold my hands as we walked out of high school and the next thing I knew, I had a girlfriend. You will never kiss anyone again like how you kiss someone when you’re in high school. Remember this. There is something innocent and passionate about the high-school sweetheart relationship.

Reality of Life

Everyone who falls in love for the first time thinks that his or her respective romance is far superior than everyone else’s, by the way. Sure, other people have first loves—but they cannot hold a candle to yours. You and your beloved are unique. No one else can feel these particular emotions. Oh, no. You alone own these one-of-a-kind feelings that no other human will ever know. And you feel them potently.

That’s first love for you. It’s awesome. It’s wonderful. It’s a mirage. It’s innocent, because for a brief time, you truly do believe that you are special and unique. (This is actually your brain chemicals playing a nifty little trick on you to get you to reproduce and perpetuate the species—but you don’t know of such banalities yet.)

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Think of first love as your very first time riding an airplane. It’s magical. A little scary, maybe? You don’t know what to expect, what comes next. Part of the thrill is feeling the plane take off from the tarmac for the first time and edging into the sky. I like to think of first love as a lot like that plane ride—young lovers are focused on the thrill of their journey. They’re not really too concerned about where they end up.

They could end up in a tropical paradise, although that’s a long shot. More likely, they end up in a depressing third-world country without enough money to get back home. Many first love experiences are tumultuous, peppered with arguments and discord. Young lovers don’t realise  that this is not normal and remain slaves to their feelings. Sometimes for years.

Once you get older, you realise  that the journey is important only insofar that it serves a function to get you to a specific place. But it’s where you end up together that’s far more important. Most young people are unqualified to make that assessment, which makes marrying their first love one big crapshoot.

I don’t regret having a first love—it was a positive, wonderful experience. But I’m relieved that we didn’t end up together. Our lives diverged wildly, and we’re nothing like the young adults we were back in the day.

I have since had loves that were mature and based on things of substance—agreed-on values, morals, and lifestyles. Those relationships made my first love affair seem rather silly by comparison.

Silly, but relevant, because it was my first. Lastly, she is no more in my life and on this earth, but she stays in my memories forever. Years later, now I am father of my two, I look back on my first love as the relationship that catapulted me into all the others — the one that prepared me for all the ups and downs of love and life that would lie ahead.

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Dad hold My Hand forever


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

Article by Pr@win..

All that I am today, is because of You.I am so grateful and blessed for having special Father like you.I appreciate you a lot. Take care always and God bless.Wish you a good health and pleasant..

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The strength of a mountain, The majesty of a tree,
The warmth of a summer sun, The calm of a quiet sea,
The generous soul of nature, The comforting arm of night,
The wisdom of the ages, The power of the eagle’s flight,
The joy of a morning in spring, The faith of a mustard seed,
The patience of eternity, The depth of a family need.

There was nothing more to add, All the qualities combined is YOU! The Masterpiece! My FATHER

Your arms are my shelter, Assuring me that it will be better.

Your hand in my comfort, Lifting me up when I fall short.

Your voice make me strong, Teaching me what’s right and wrong.

Your smile says it all, Father I love you more then all.

DAD I take this opportunity to say Thanks for what you have made my life to be from the word go to this time.

Father,… Walk alongside me, daddy and hold my little hand.
I have so many things to learn that I don’t yet understand.

Teach me things to keep me safe from dangers every day.
Show me how to do my best at home, at school, at play at office and in life.

Every child needs a gentle hand to guide them as they grow.
So walk alongside me, daddy -We have a long way to go.

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Posted by on June 15, 2014 in Family & Relationship

 

A true father is always there for You


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

By ShruthaKeerthi…

People ask me.. “Why social service! you are so young! You should be having fun!?” the truth is..With you as my father, I will strive till the end of my life to be at least half of the person you are! I am blessed to have u DAD, u are my hero, teacher, guide, strength & weakness. You are everything!

 HaPpiE faThErS daY DaDdy  LOve U daDdy 

Parenting is a 24-hour-a-day job with no salary, no raises, no promotions and very few vacations.   kee

A true father is always there.

He is there to spill tears of happiness when his eyes fall upon his infant daughter.

He is there with arms to catch her when she takes her first steps or stumbles.

He is there to teach her at the youngest age, even though she might not understand half of it.

He is there to help her color inside the lines, make her grilled cheese sandwiches and tomato soup, and tie her shoes.

He is there to hug her and kiss her on her first days of school, and to walk her in if need be.

He is there to teach her and tease her and laugh with her. He is always there to embarrass her, but that’s part of life.

He is there to tell her to go ask her mother, when her mother told her to ask him.

He is there to lecture her, prepare her for the monster called high school.

He is there to put up with her teenage moods and her co-ed relationships. He is there to approve, disapprove, accept and forgive.

He is there to give her a big bundle of flowers when she graduates, to smile when her name is called and feel proud.

He is there to embrace her and kiss her before she goes to live and learn a thousand miles away.

He is there to see her become a workingwoman, to walk her down the aisle (or not, if her independence and stubbornness prevail after all).

He is there to watch her grow as the lines on his face grow.

He is there to welcome her home, always, and let her hug him and smell the smell she remembers from childhood, the warm, protecting, comforting smell of dad.

But most of all, he is always there to love her. And she is always there to love him back.

“Dad, I love you, love you the most. Never leave me alone.”

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Posted by on June 15, 2014 in Family & Relationship

 

Proud To Be Your Daughter


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Article by Daughter of a Lovely Father…..

 The greatest gift I ever had, Came from God; I call him Father!  

He didn’t tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.

There will always be a few people who have the courage to love what is untamed inside us. One of those men is my father.

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A Father is someone who
wants to catch you before you fall
but instead picks you up,
brushes you off,
and lets you try again.

A Father is someone who
wants to keep you from making mistakes
but instead lets you find your own way,
even though his heart breaks in silence
when you get hurt.

A Father is someone who
holds you when you cry,
scolds you when you break the rules,
shines with pride when you succeed,
and has faith in you even when you fail…

My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person, he believed in me

FATHER I take this opportunity to say
BIG Thank you for what you have made
my life to be from the word go to this time.
I say thank you Father.
Happy Father’s Day 

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Tribute to Women


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

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The first face……The first touch….The first love……he first affection…The first hug

Mother…………….. A women.

 Do I need to say about “the first” anymore??

This is a tribute to our mothers, grandmothers and sisters or the women who have come and gone throughout centuries and the women who are here today taking their place; women like you and me.

This is a tribute to women from all walks of life. No matter where they came from or what position or status they held, these are women who have toiled the soil for most if not all their living years. These are the women who worked for hours, days, even years, often non-stop, pouring their sweat, sometimes their heart into what they felt needed to be done. Some of these women got to see the fruit of their hard labor while others didn’t. One thing is clear though, no matter what little satisfaction they got or didn’t get out of it, they still got the job done otherwise you and I wouldn’t be here today living the life we lead.

Throughout time these women have done their share of the work often quietly and sometimes not so quietly, at times, even with a lot of anguish and despair too But in the end they did the work because they knew if they didn’t, no one else would.

While some of these women chose the work they gave their time and effort, more often than not, they didn’t have the luxury of choice. Many felt their work was their fate and so it was only their duty to accept it and carry it out. Perhaps as a result, many also carried the burden of resentment. But they still stayed and did the work and quietly buried their grief within themselves. Some carried their grief and resentment into their graves, or maybe it was the grief and the resentment that finally carried them to their graves. Either way, many left and still leave today with a heavy heart and a silent voice. This is a tribute to all these women who have come and gone, and those who are here today doing the work but are rarely seen, recognized or acknowledged for their share.

Though these women come from all races, religions, sects and cultures, we are able to relate to them as our own mothers, sisters, aunts, and grandmothers. This strong kinship always existed among women. No matter from what part of the world we come from, whenever we hear about another woman who may be lost her life to cancer, we let out a deep sigh of despair for we only know too well of the pain that finally took her precious life. We know her as our own because her pain is our pain.

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So let us come together, pay tribute and celebrate the lives of these women through celebrating our own precious lives. Let us celebrate our own talents and unique qualities and give ourselves the acknowledgment and the recognition due for our efforts and hard work however big or small. Let us recognize and honor the mother, the sister, the aunt and the grandmother within ourselves and within each other and remember that like a burning candle that illuminated the dark, we too need to honor and cherish the light within ourselves and each other for giving light to the world around us.

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Posted by on March 7, 2014 in Life & It's Importance

 

Motherhood is a Gift


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

Woman, you are amazing!

From the first presentation of woman to man in the Garden of Eden, the gift of who you are is nothing less than “wow!” Your dignity comes from the gift of your being, and the gift of your being created feminine. images (2)

Man saw your profound and complementary gifts right away, and rejoiced. In God’s first act of blessing humanity, the creator smiled upon and blessed the union of the first couple, encouraging them be fertile and multiply

There’s no mistaking biology. Womanly bodies are wonderfully made, and purposefully created with an empty space of a womb carried under her heart. A woman’s womb, her uterus, signals that she is made for something and someone more than herself. This reality touches a woman at her very core — physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

What’s more, a pregnant mother is entrusted with carrying an immortal soul besides her own — a soul that is destined for eternity. That’s why a woman really needs to be aware of the dignity of her feminine creation, and the sublime gift of her maternity, so she can confer that dignity on her child, and upon others through her love of life.

The gift of maternity is inherent in all women. They are predisposed to motherhood by their design. Yet, as we know, not all women bear children. Even if a woman never gives birth, a woman’s life is still inclined toward mothering. All women are entrusted with the call to care for the people within their sphere of influence. This broadens our ideas of maternity beyond gestation and lactation.

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Yes, women! Your womb is a marvelous gift, meant to be used as a tool to bear and bear a

nd bear until you die of it, with no concern whatsoever for anything else you might do with your life, for your ability to care for those children, or for what it costs you or your existing family! We’ll give lip service to your selfless devoted work raising all th

Your brain, ignore and throw away in favor of mindless obedience. Any other gifts you might have, throw away in favor of mindless and continual morality. You are a breeding machine – this is a marvelous thing to be! Cherish it! Love it! Never ever dare to do or want anything other than motherhood, because your womb should be in charge of your life, not your mind or heart or talents.ose kids (assuming you have any energy left after bearingbearingbearing until you die of it), but we won’t actually allow you any discretion as to how or when or how often to do it, not unless you want to swear lifelong celibacy (and can get your husband to approve).

Cherish Motherhood!! 🙂

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Is Beauty a Joy Forever?


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

Article by Susheel…

A picture speaks louder than thousand words.

A motion picture speaks the loudest …

imagesThe phrase that often comes is ‘is advertising reflects the society or society reflects in advertising?

but the truth :advertising is reinforcing a stereotypical image of women in society.

Is Beauty a Joy Forever? yes,young women as models are always objectifying in adds…

A bikini model walks out of water on to the beach…. and u may ask “what wrong?”.. not until u know the product it was promoting is-an Indian cement brand.and the voice over said ‘vishwas hai, isme kush kas hey.’

Not just this there are product categories that often stereotype women.many deodorants ads,for instance ,make us believe that if  you wear them you become a chick magnet.It is not just in India.. objectifying women ,also obviously seen in developed  countries as well.Advertisers use beautiful women to attract attention to products because they believe the beautiful are credible, desirable, and aspiration. But these advertisers has to stop looking at the thinking subject and concentrate on the” humanity subject and how to define “beauty”.

Most of the brands have consciously checked the way they portrait the women in their communication.brands like images (3),tata,nirma have done great work demolish the type cast.

Advertisers and Agencies both need to carefully look into content and context.”The creative person writing the copy has a blank paper in front , and they have a choice.”

they can choose to write about a girl who is presented as a gift to the boy who wins a bike ride, or they can write about a girl riding a bike.

Because the creative people have the power to influence mindsets and change behaviors. So realize that you have options and can choose to tell better stories.

And as individuals it is we who has to decide what to encourage and what not to……

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Cherish Womanhood!!


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

It’s Chetan Bhagat’ s Article in TOI : Specially for Indian Women. Do Read it and share it with all the women you know..

Courage, sacrifice, determination, commitment, toughness, heart, talent, guts… that’s what some woman are made of! 1601025_815849185097517_1558522187_n

A recent survey by Nielsen has revealed that Indian women are the most stressed out in the world: 87% of our women feel stressed out most of the time. This statistic alone has caused me to stress out. Even in workaholic America, only 53% women feel stressed.

What are we doing to our women? I’m biased, but Indian women are the most beautiful in the world. As mothers, sisters, daughters, colleagues, wives and girlfriends – we love them. Can you imagine life without the ladies?

For now, i want to give Indian women five suggestions to reduce their stress levels.

One, don’t ever think you are without power. Give it back to that mother-in-law. Be who you are, not someone she wished you would be. She doesn’t like you? That’s her problem.

Two, if you are doing a good job at work and your boss doesn’t value you -tell him that, or quit. Talented, hard-working people are much in demand.

Three, educate yourself, learn skills, network – figure out ways to be economically independent. So next time your husband tells you that you are not a good enough wife, mother or daughter-in-law, you can tell him to take a hike.

Four, do not ever feel stressed about having a dual responsibility of family and work. It is difficult, but not impossible. The trick is not to expect an A+ in every aspect of your life. You are not taking an exam, and you frankly can’t score cent per cent (unless you are in SRCC, of course). It is okay if you don’t make four dishes for lunch, one can fill their stomach with one. It is okay if you don’t work until midnight and don’t get a promotion. Nobody remembers their job designation on their dying day.

Five, most important, don’t get competitive with other women. Someone will make a better scrapbook for her school project than you. Another will lose more weight with a better diet. Your neighbor may make a six-dabba tiffin for her husband, you don’t – big deal. Do your best, but don’t keep looking out for the report card, and definitely don’t expect to top the class. There is no ideal woman in this world, and if you strive to become one, there will be only one thing you will achieve for certain – stress.

So breathe, chill, relax. Tell yourself you are beautiful, do your best and deserve a peaceful life. Anybody trying to take that away from you is making a mistake, not you. Your purpose of coming to this earth is not to please everyone. Your purpose is to offer what you have to the world, and have a good life in return. The next time this survey comes, i don’t want to see Indian women on top of the list. I want them to be the happiest women in the world.

Cherish Womanhood!!

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Posted by on February 3, 2014 in Life & It's Importance

 

♥♥Have a Prosperous Year♥♥


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

Dear All,

“May your coming year be filled with magic and dreams and good madness. I hope you read some fine books and kiss someone who thinks you’re wonderful, and don’t forget to make some art — write or draw or build or sing or live as only you can. And I hope, somewhere in the next year, you surprise yourself. I hope the year to add, everlasting memories to your life’s journey”
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Let us avoid negative, arrogant and noisy people
Let us unite, positive, modest and wise people
Let us help as much as we can all those in need
May there be freedom for men, women, children and animals
May there be a fair share of knowledge and welfare
May we respect all those who are different from us
May we all refuse to send our children to silly wars
May we quietly, non-violently and wisely act
May we open our hearts, spread and be guided by love
May we succeed to keep our dignity in all circumstances
May we stop producing stuff that affects our health
May we learn how to cure diseases’ and relieve the pain
May we demand and elect governments based on this values

♥♥♥♥Happiness keeps you sweet, Trials make you strong, Sorrows make you humble, Success keeps you glowing & your determination keeps you going. May you have a greatest 2014….Ur’s …Munn@Pr@win♥♥♥♥

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I am going to miss You Forever…


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

My Heart Never knows loneliness until you went away.

Nobody knows that i still wake up thinking of you
each-day .

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I miss your company,
I miss your smile,
I miss walking with you in rain,
I miss your love, care, concern,
I miss the sensation of your touch.
I miss you, pampering me like kid,
I miss visiting temples with you,
I miss the arms that protected me,
I miss the shoulder that takes me to sleep,
I miss the fingers, that wipes out my tears,
I miss the hand that holds me when I am down,
I miss holding you at night,
I miss support of your shoulders when I am tired.
I miss feeling like you want me.
I miss early morning walks in the park by holding your hand,
I miss the kiss which you used to give on my forehead daily,
I miss imagining us a year from now,and how happy we should be.
I miss planning our vacations,
I miss phone calls, text messages,
I miss sweet fights with you,
I miss daydreaming of how nice it will all be.
I miss the idea of you missing me!!!
I miss everything we used to be!
Finally I miss, my Life’s journey with you,

Nobody Understands how much I miss you,

You are defined as my unspoken truth hidden behind my heart…

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Posted by on December 31, 2013 in Family & Relationship

 

Listen to Her


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

“Intellectually, mentally, and spiritually, woman is equivalent to a male and she can participate in every activity.” But ….

Woman don’t always get the respect that they deserve. This being said, it is this articles opinion that there are many who do respect woman, although perhaps they do not know how to show it properly. Here are a few steps and tips. Please keep in mind that this article is for showing respect to all woman, not just a special one or two.

Steps

Don’t talk with your back to her and make eye contact. Remember that it is very important to face the direction of your conversation and make eye contact with woman that is either talking to you or when you are talking to them. People tend to become relaxed around familiar people and as such we sometimes forget the small things.
Don’t interrupt her. Let her finish talking to you and then reply, even if half way through you think you know where the conversation is heading. Chances are she is talking to you about a subject because it is important. By listening to her you can acknowledge that her information is important to you. Also you might find that you missed out on an important point that she might have picked up about the subject of conversation.
Give valid arguments. When in conversation about a certain topic, give valid arguments about the points raised. Don’t insult a woman’s intelligence by being sarcastic about the subject because you might believe that she wouldn’t know about it.
Give constructive compliments. When a woman does something or add to something that helped anything improve, acknowledge her for it. It doesn’t always need to be done publicly unless the rest of the team gets praised the same way. Recognize her verbally or via email or what ever means you see fit and proper for the work that she has put in to it.
Ask her opinion about important matters. There is nothing in this world that feels better than when you are sitting at work and someone in a higher position comes up to you and seriously asks for your opinion, listens to you and thanks you for your input. (this doesn’t just apply to woman, but to most men too)Even at home, let her know that her opinion counts and that her input is taken seriously.
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Happy Ugadi !!!!♥♥♥♥


Dear All,
The festival of Ugadi heralds the beginning Telugu & Kannada New Year and is celebrated all over AndhraPradesh & Karnataka with traditional fervor. The word ‘Ugadi’ is derived from the Sanskrit word ‘Yugadi’, which means ‘beginning of a new Yuga or era’. Ugadi is the first day of new year in the states AndhraPradesh, Karnataka, Maharashtra and Goa.

Happy Ugadi To U & all your family members

Symbolic Eating of a Dish with Six Tastes: The eating of a specific mixture of six tastes , called Ugadi Pachhadi in Telugu and Bevu-Bella in Kannada,symbolizes the fact that life is a mixture of different experiences (sadness, happiness, anger, fear, disgust, surprise) , which should be accepted together and with equanimity through the New Year.

The Special Mixture consists of:
1.Neem Buds/Flowers for its bitterness, signifying Sadness
2.Jaggery and ripe banana pieces for sweetness, signifying Happiness
3.Green Chilli/Pepper for its hot taste, signifying Anger
4.Salt for saltiness, signifying Fear
5.Tamarind Juice for its sourness, signifying Disgust
6.Unripened Mango for its tang, signifying Surprise

May this Ugadi bring in you the brightest and choicest happiness and love you have ever wished for..

           U – Ultimate G – Glorious A – Amazing D – Days r  I – in front of  U         

         Happy Ugadi! to you & all your family members!!!!!!!

             ♥♥♥  Happiness keeps you sweet, Trials make you strong, Sorrows make you humble, Success keeps you glowing & your determination keeps you going. May you have a greatest year Ahead…Ur’s  SCF Team  ♥♥♥

 
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Posted by on April 11, 2013 in Life & It's Importance

 

Woman’s Day


 

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As world will be celebrating women’s day on 08th March, I feel that it is my duty to express my gratitude to all women in my life, as a mother, sister, teacher, friend, wife, daughter,  peer…to all known and unknown women’s.

Nature has given women so much power that the law has very wisely given them little. A woman is like a tea bag: you cannot tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water. – Even woman laugh, love, hope, try, hurt, need, fear, cry. And they do the same things too, So they really not that different, me and you.

Women play very important roles in our lives. They are our mothers, our wives, sisters, daughters and friends. Women sacrifice a great deal for the men in their lives and sometimes their little sacrifices go unnoticed or without mention. Even with the great push for equality and affirmative action, women still suffer in this male dominated world. Some Inspiration for women that would help motivates, empower and help women step out of the pattern of self-doubt.

 “Woman must not accept; she must challenge. She must not be awed by that which has been built up around her; she must reverence that woman in her which struggles for expression.”

Few things I like in women around me…

1. It is amazing how women are so wonderfully giving and loving. Their love is unconditional and forever. And once 
they forgive, they really forget. They don’t dig out the heavy artillery, even when they have the best opportunities 
to do so.

2. It is lovely how women manage to hear you out for hours. They never pass judgments. Never say you are wrong (even if you have behaved like the worst jerk in the world). And when you ask for their opinion they give it without managing to make you feel a worm. They criticize without wounding.

3. A smile. Now when women smiles, she really smiles. No pretences, She smiles from her heart and speaks with her eyes. It is amazing how many ways women smiles. She has a tender smile, a loving smile, a “what will I do with you” kind a smile. A saucy grin. A smile of gentle indulgence and finally the best of them the complete smile. The smile that says “Whatever you are, however you are, I love you”

4. The way they get all in frenzy, when they want to let you know of their achievements. Their eyes say “I want you to be proud of me” but they will die rather than admit it, After all they only wanted to let you know.

5. “Do-good” attitude – an undeniable part of every woman. They are out to reform everyone. They will give you sermons on all your vices (by the number of ‘vices’ they list you will feel a worse insect than Satan will) and tell you have to reform to be a “better” person. And will be hurt if you don’t wanna change. 

6. A single thing that I love about a woman, it is the perfect mix that makes men goes weak-kneed. The sensuality combined with nurturing, the naughtiness combined with caring, the vivacity coupled with quiet understanding. It is a heady mix and man, it is very intoxicating. 

Therefore, 

Kudos to the Mother who loves others even more
Kudos to the brave lady
Kudos to the business woman
Kudos to the sports woman
Kudos to the politician
Kudos to the women for all her successful and enduring

I declare to you that woman must not depend upon the protection of man, but must be taught to protect herself.

 

 
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Posted by on March 8, 2013 in Family & Relationship

 

Be my Valentine Forever


Being in love is the magical and unforgettable experience of your life. So don’t be shy and reveal your true feelings to the one who has made you fall love.

Valentine’s Day will be celebrated on 14th of February, throughout the world every year – with much love and enthusiasm. It is the most awaited day by lovers all over the world. Co-incidentally I met Love for the first time in same month. That first meet changed my life totally. I decided never to heave her hand irrespective of situation I am in and consequences i need to face. Till date I am on it and I will be on IT.

Love cannot be measured in actions and words but when expressed in the right terms it can sure melt someone’s heart. Valentine’s Day is the day which is celebrated all over the world as the day of love. It is the perfect day to communicate your deep feelings of passion and affection towards someone you have fallen for.

Let’s share the world
A sea is for you, and waves are for me.
The sky is for you, and stars are for me.
The sun is for you, and light is for me.
Everything is for you, and you are for me.
Happy Valentines Day

Valentines-Day

The moment I saw you
I fell in love with you
I can’t live without you
and want to spend the rest of my life with you
I Love you
What will you reply?

You are The most beautiful waterfall in all the good times,
My Friend, My Love, My All.
You are the most amazing part of waking up every morning,
I love you, with every beat of my heart and every breath I take.
Thank you for being in my life and my world.

Your love surrounds me like the air that I breathe.
Your kiss touches me as gentle as a breeze.
Your touch is as tender as that of a child.
Your hug is warm, meek, and mild.
Each day we grow older and its plain to see,
The love that you give me is all that I need.

You may be out of my sight, but not out of my heart.
you may be out of my reach, but not out of my mind.
I may mean nothing to you, but you’ll always be special to me.

 I thought love was just a mirage of the mind,
it’s an illusion, it’s fake, impossible to find.
But the day I met you, I began to see,
that love is real, and exists in me.

I wanted to tell you that wherever I am,
whatever happens, I’ll always think of you,
and the time we spent together,
Was my happiest time. I’d do it all over again,
if I had the choice. No regrets.

Happy Valentine Day! To all my friends who are committed:
And To all my friends who r single,Happy Independence Life…:-)

 
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Way of the Peaceful Parent


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

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The article was by Father of beautiful angel…

Peace isn’t a place with no stress, but a place where you take the stress as it comes, in stride, and don’t let it rule you. You let it flow through you, and then smile, and breathe, and give your child a hug.

Parents will always have stress: we not only have to deal with tantrums and scraped knees and refusing to eat anything you cook, but we worry about potential accidents, whether we are ruining our kids, whether our children will find happiness as adults and be able to provide for themselves and find love.

I’ve learned that we can find peace.

There is a Way of the Peaceful Parent, but it isn’t one that I’ve learned completely. I’ll share what I’ve learned so far, with the caveat that I don’t always follow the Way, that I still make mistakes daily, that I still have a lot to learn, that I don’t claim to have all the answers as a parent.

The Way

The Way is only learned by walking it. Here are the steps I recommend:

  • Greet your child each morning with a smile, a hug, a loving Good Morning! This is how we would all like to be greeted each day.
  • Teach your child to make her own breakfast. This starts for most children at around the age of 3 or 4. Teach them progressively to brush their teeth, bathe themselves, clean up their rooms, put away clothes, wash their dishes, make lunch, wash their own clothes, sweep and clean, etc.
  • Teaching these skills takes patience. Kids suck at them at first, so you have to show them about a hundred times, but let them try it, correct them, and let them make mistakes. They will gradually learn independence as you will gradually have less work to do caring for them.
  • Older children can help younger children — it’s good for them to learn responsibility, it helps the younger children learn from the older ones, and it takes some of the stress off you.
  • Read to them often. It’s a wonderful way to bond, to educate, to explore imaginary worlds.imagesqq
  • Build forts with them. Play hide and seek. Shoot each other with Nerf dart guns. Have tea together. Squeeze lemons and make lemonade. Play, often, as play is the essence of childhood. Don’t try to force them to stop playing.
  • When your child asks for your attention, grant it.
  • Parents need alone time, though. Set certain traditions so that you’ll have time to work on your own, or have mommy and daddy time in the evening, when your child can do things on her own.
  • When your child is upset, put yourself in his shoes. Don’t just judge the behavior (yes, crying and screaming isn’t ideal), but the needs behind the behavior. Does he need a hug, or attention, or maybe he’s just tired?
  • Model the behavior you want your child to learn. Don’t yell at the child because he was screaming. Don’t get angry at a child for losing his temper. Don’t get mad at a kid who wants to play video games all the time if you’re always on your laptop. Be calm, smile, be kind, go outdoors and be active.
  • When a stressful time arises (and it will), learn to deal with it with a smile. Make a joke, turn it into a game, laugh … you’ll teach your child not to take things so seriously, and that life is to be enjoyed. Breathe, walk away if you’ve lost your temper, and come back when you can smile.
  • Remember that your child is a gift. She won’t be a child for long, and so your time with her is fleeting. Every moment you can spend with her is a miracle, and you should savor it. Enjoy it to the fullest, and be grateful for that moment.
  • Let your child share your interests. Bake cookies together. Sew together. Exercise together. Read together. Work on a website together. Write a blog together.
  • Know that when you screw up as a parent, everything will be fine. Forgive yourself. Apologize. Learn from that screw up. In other words, model the behavior you’d like your child to learn whenever he screws up.
  • Patiently teach your child the boundaries of behavior. There should be boundaries — what’s acceptable and what’s not. It’s not OK to do things that might harm yourself or others. We should treat each other with kindness and respect. Those aren’t things the child learns immediately, so have patience, but set the boundaries. Within those boundaries, allow lots of freedom.
  • Give your child some space. Parents too often over-schedule their child’s life, with classes and sports and play dates and music and clubs and the like, but it’s a constant source of stress for both child and parent to keep this schedule going. Let the child go outside and play. Free time is necessary. You don’t always have to be by her side either — she needs alone time just as much as you do.
  • Exercise to cope with stress. A run in solitude is a lovely thing. Get a massage now and then.
  • It helps tremendously to be a parenting team — one parent can take over when the other gets stressed. When one parent starts to lose his temper, the other should be a calming force.
  • Sing and dance together.
  • Take every opportunity to teach kindness and love. It’s the best lesson.
  • Kiss your child goodnight. And give thanks for another amazing day with your beautiful, unique, crazy child.

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‘You know the only people who are always sure about the proper way to raise children? Those who’ve never had any.’

Please feel free to share your story and any lessons you learned, you experienced , you came across in your life in the comments below.

 
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Posted by on December 29, 2012 in Family & Relationship

 

Man who Programmed his LIFE


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

From students of PSNA college..

Prawin, the day I met you during a training program in my college, my first impression is you are so handsome with unique dressing, silver rings, bracelets and earring. You are first crush in my life and to many others in PSNA college 2011 BE batch. When you started the training program, you looked like an Idiot who is speaking so arrogant and have no respect towards girls. By the end of 3 day training event, you looked something special to me and many of my friends. As it is a college with many students who girls,  many of my friends started to admire you for your looks, your attitude, your teaching skills and love you poured on us. After journey with you and by seeing and listening to people about you, I understood I am totally wrong for taking u wrong on day 1. From then, every-time I used to get surprised with your lectures, articles and with your Gutso nature. You are unique in way you speak, behave, give lectures, work, treat others, learn, eat, live your life… I mean  WhatsApp Image 2019-11-17 at 8.05.26 PMeverything grabbed the attention of people around you. People like you are actually a very rare gem. You might not actually have a bad personality, but it can be so intense that other people often feel the need to give you a wide berth. That doesn’t necessarily mean you should change who you are. You just need to understand that people will often misunderstand you.It could be the energy around you, it could also be a peculiar personality trait that rubs people the wrong way.

Out of my curiosity of attraction or love, I did lot of analysis and found some interesting and hidden points about your personality. For those who possess a deeper personality, you may actually be scaring people off just by being yourself! You are like a Humanoid/ a programmed human. 

Prawin, You possess a deep personality, you are like a diamond in the rough – the honest, reliable, forward-thinking type of person that makes this world a better place. However, not everyone is going to understand how your mind works. There are many people out there who are willing to settle for far less, and your intensity threatens the simplicity of the world that they have created.

You do things with gusto. You believe that you only live once, and therefore, you make an effort to live life to the fullest. Many people don’t do things in the same manner, and they will therefore not get why you do it. But take heart, there will be people who understand your passion, and you can hold on to them.

You Never encourage shallow relationships. You’re not the kind of person who is going to enjoy a one-night stand or a casual fling. If you get into a relationship, you’re all in. You want to connect with someone on a deep level, establishing a meaningful relationship, and anything less is a waste of time in your opinion. As a person with a deep personality, you expect others to give as you give, but you’ll soon be disappointed when you find that many people are only “deep” on the surface” and that it is difficult for people to keep up the ruse over time.

You are incredibly open-minded. Too many people have masked closed-mindedness today with the illusion that they are merely staying true to their morals and beliefs rather than admitting they simply haven’t tried to understand. Instead, you are open to trying to understand new ideas, concepts and ways of living. You may not agree, but you’re always willing to learn more.

IMG_1023You are brutally honest.When it comes down to it, you don’t have time to waste beating around the bush. It’s why people both love and hate you. You don’t bother to sugar coat things, and see your honesty as a positive trait about you. Don’t worry, it is, but many people are not going to like it when you tell it like it is, especially if it’s a hard truth about themselves they don’t want to admit.

You always have a clear picture of what you want. Knowing what you want means you can get to work faster. This means that people will be always in your dust. Your goals are always a top priority which can lead you to say or do things in your quest to achieve success that will make others feel uncomfortable. When you speak your mind you are capable of achieving those goals and that makes people pretty uncomfortable; especially when they are comparing themselves to you and your amazing self. Just be careful not to be too goal focused or you can lose sight of the beauty in the little moments in between.

Your habits are programmed. Schedules and consistency are your friends, creating a solid and predictable foundation upon which you can build your life. You like to know what to expect and how you should prepare for it, and you have no interest in surprises.

You are a solution for problems. If you’re in a difficult situation, you’re not the kind of person who is going to sit around wallowing in the struggle you’ve been handed. Instead, you will instantly get to work trying to find a solution to the problem, working on getting yourself out of there and on to better things.

You like consistency. Your deep personality requires some maintenance and that means that you don’t like surprises. You expect people to do what they said they would do, and you always deliver on your promises in return. When someone rocks the boat, it can be hard for your emotional thought process to handle, and that means that you need longer to deal with life’s problems. But that’s okay, it also means you get to spend more time working through things that others would just glaze over.

Your life isn’t fear driven. Every human being experiences fear. For some people, it can stop them from living a full life. But you’re different. Fear is just another annoying emotion you’ve chosen to accept and move on from. You understand that you will undoubtedly experience fear when you try something new, but you also know that trying new things is what makes life fun and rewarding. After all, growth only happens when you escape your comfort zone.

You aren’t afraid of intimacy. You never seen feeling uncomfortable in expressing love or your feelings. I still remember you sharing your first kiss incident. You want to share your life with someone who understands you at your deepest core. ThaWhatsApp Image 2019-11-17 at 8.02.39 PM(2)t can be hard .But it doesn’t mean that you will never find it. It’s surprising how many people in today’s society claim to understand the importance of intimacy and then shy away from it completely when the opportunity presents itself.

You are incredibly intense in all that you do.You are too intense for some people. You love life and you love living life to the fullest.You intend on living life to the fullest, experiencing everything available. This causes you to lead your life with a level of intensity that most will fail to understand. The few who understand you will share your passion for finding enjoyment in every moment, those are the people you need to surround yourself with.

You cannot shut your mouth.While this may come across to others like you are  interrogating them, the truth is that you want to get to know them on a deeper and more meaningful level. You aren’t asking for manipulative reasons or to find out information you can use to your benefit later, you genuinely want to understand others better and asking questions is the best way to learn more.

You hate waiting in life. Sure, you understand the importance of friendship and companionship but when it comes down to it, you have places to go and things to accomplish. If someone is going to waste your time or leave you waiting around waiting for them to recognize what you have to offer, you have better things to do. You’ll simply walk away and devote that time and energy into those who are ready.

You are like a human lie detector. When someone is being insincere or dishonest, it’s like a red light goes off in your mind warning you that they are screwing around. As someone who values honest, as we previously discussed, there’s nothing you see as a bigger deal breaker than someone who tells lies. You have no interest in sticking around for those that don’t respect you enough to be transparent with you.

You are careful who you let into your life. You only want to spend time with people who actually add to your life. After all, what good is a friend if they don’t make your life better? Yes, you’re intense when it comes to adhering to these principles, but it’s the best way for you to live a great life.

WhatsApp Image 2019-11-17 at 8.02.39 PMYou hate ignorance. You cannot tolerate the feeling of being ignored by your beloved ones. Your critical thinking skills are something you’re immensely proud of. So when people make judgments without knowing the facts, it irks you to your core.

You love learning and expanding your mind. You are book worm not reading books alone, but peoples lives as well. Your deep and complex mind needs new information to feed itself. You love learning new things and expanding your knowledge about the world and the universe.

You don’t need attention. Craving attention because of your looks is something you simply can’t understand. You’d rather live with integrity and keep your complexity and depth about you. That’s why you take the time to get to know someone. You know there’s much more to a person than what appears on the surface. This can be intimidating to some people because you won’t be manipulated by what appears on the outside. You see them for who they truly are.

I watched this video about you. The reason nobody doesn’t understand you is that you try to be the different one and perhaps you don’t want to be understood. There’s nothing wrong with being different, it’s good to be you and unique. If you weren’t different, we’d all be the same and that’s not fun nor worth it. Many people in this world  won’t understand you like me in the first meet, but that isn’t a bad thing, But that doesn’t make you less of who you are.

MunnaPrawin, you are very unique and special to me. You are unique breed of human with so many attractive and inspiring traits. Never change yourself for anyone. Let people leave you, but never leave yourself. Remember your words, If a day comes where, I have to change ME to impress this world, that means I am dead.Remember these words forever and never change. One last thing, you may have heard this word from many, but i wanna say that I love you till my last breath. Yours loving AkshayaAryan.

 

 

 

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The Ant Philosophy


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by munn@prawin…

Please remember that I’m an everyday, average person who loves every being & respects every life and is trying to the best with what I’ve been given. I’m not an orator or a narrator. I’m only posting my reflections on the lessons I learned from my life.

In the early morning, when I am preparing my coffee, I observed few ants gathered at my coffee cup. While observing them, I got few points in my mind which I would like to share to you all…

I found myself interest in the lives of those little powerhouses, and soon enjoyed not only feeding, watching and caring for them, but learning from them as well.

Here are a few of the things I picked up from those tiny fellows, and how those lessons can be applied or molded to fit our personal financial lives.

Ants never quit. That’s a good philosophy. If they’re headed somewhere and you try to stop them, they’ll look for another way. They’ll climb over. They’ll climb under. They’ll climb around. They keep looking for another way. What a neat philosophy-to never quit looking for a way to get where you’re supposed to go.

Lesson: To never quit looking for a way to get where you’re supposed to go.

Work First, Play…Never? I know that a bug’s capacity for play is limited, and I knew going in that ants had a heck of a work ethic, but these little guys’ were ridiculous…they never stopped working except to sleep. I mean, I’m all for work getting your work out of the way first, but these ants took it to a whole new level. They’d just work, work, work.

Lesson: Work…Enjoy the work

Ants think winter all summer. That’s an important perspective. You can’t be so naive as to think summer will last forever. So ants gather their winter food in the middle of summer.

An ancient story says, “Don’t build your house on the sand in the summer.” Why do we need that advice? Because it is important to think ahead. In the summer, you’ve got to think storm. You’ve got to think rocks as you enjoy the sand and sun.

Lesson: It is important to be realistic. Think ahead.

Working as a Team:

It is incredible just how much teamwork can take place with creatures that don’t speak to one another.

While each ant in the colony seems to know his role, we as humans often find ourselves not knowing exactly how to help ourselves or each other in families of much smaller proportions. it is similarly important inside human families for us to understand our roles by talking to and listening to one another and determining just how we can each contribute best to the family finances and pull our weight accordingly.

Ants think summer all winter. That is so important. During the winter, ants remind themselves, “This won’t last long; we’ll soon be out of here.” And the first warm day, the ants are out. If it turns cold again, they’ll dive back down, but then they come out the first warm day. They can’t wait to get out.

Lesson: Stay positive at all times.

Do all-you-possibly-can.How much will an ant gather during the summer to prepare for the winter? All he possibly can. What an incredible philosophy, the “all-you-possibly-can” philosophy.

Lesson: Do all you can….and more!

Nobody Tells the Ants to Be Prepared: We need to look towards the future, while keeping an eye on the present. If we live too much in the present, while ignoring the future, we run the risk of abusing credit cards to satisfy our every whim. Then we will be in big financial trouble in the future.

If we live too much for the future, we risk not appreciating the present. If we work too much, we miss out on our children’s lives. That’s not OK either.

The ants are balanced. They eat what they need today. They eat enough to get them through the winter. But they don’t eat too much. If they didn’t eat enough today, they’d die. If they gorged themselves on too much food, they’d explode. The find the perfect balance. And that’s what we need to do too.

Ant’s Philosophy

Never Give Up, Look Ahead Stay Positive, Do All You Can, Be faithful, even to the point of death, hose who live should no longer live for themselves, Live for Others, Always be prepared.

@  This collection is sure to energize your nerves, brighten up your face with a smile, lighten up your confused mind and let u ponder and think upon the subtleties and intricacies of the enigma called life.

@ Someone somewhere thinks of ur smile n while thinking of u says life is worthwhile. So whenever u r lonely remember it’s true, someone somewhere is alive b’coz of u..

Please feel free to share your story and any lessons you learned, you experienced , you came across in your life in the comments below.

 
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Posted by on November 20, 2012 in Experiences of Life.

 

HL7 – A Standard That HealthCare Industry Speaks In


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by VijayaLakshmi…

Guys!! Tired of reading technical stuff! Here is a piece of Health care messaging standard (HL7- Health Level 7)! Treat your knowledge buds!! Happy Reading!!

 

Real Time Scenario – HL7 need:

Marie is a CRF (Chronic Renal Failure) patient having her dialysis at Hospital X (Let’s assume!), seeking to have kidney transplantation at Hospital Y as the former is not providing it. When she visited Hospital Y for the registration, here is the conversation with Alan-Administrative staff of Hospital Y.

These challenges concern the inability to share and manage data within and across the healthcare organizations.

These can be overcome if organizations follow the same standards when setting up their information management systems. HL7 is that of standard.

What is HL7?

Health Level 7 – A healthcare specific communication standard for data exchange between computer applications.

Health Level 7, the ANSI standard for information interchange between foreign systems in the healthcare industry. The “7” refers to the fact that the protocol is designed to address the 7th layer of the International Standards Organization’s Open System Interconnect model (the application layer).  The application level addresses definition of the data to be exchanged, the timing of the interchange, and the communication of certain errors to the application. The seventh level supports such functions as security checks, participant identification, availability checks, exchange mechanism negotiations and, most importantly, data exchange structuring.

Why HL7?

There are several health care standards development efforts currently underway throughout the world. Why then, embrace HL7? HL7 is singular as it focuses on the interface requirements of the entire health care organization, while most other efforts focus on the requirements of a particular department. Moreover, on an ongoing basis, HL7 develops a set of protocols on the fastest possible track that is both responsive and responsible to its members. The group addresses the unique requirements of already installed hospital and departmental systems, some of which use mature technologies.

HL7 Message Types and Versions:

There are four primary HL7 standard message types:

Messages type and function/ area of healthcare service get communicated.

  • Patient Administration (ADT) –Patient admission details (Demographics, visit, insurance…etc)
  • Orders (ORMs) – Orders to pharmacy/healthcare services
  • Results (ORUs) – Lab/diagnostic results from laboratory
  • Charges (DFTs) – Financial charges

HL7 organization takes care of message standards development. Any new versioning/ development commence from here.

Currently Version 2.1 to 2.7 is available. V2.7 is the latest release from HL7 organization. V3 is also available; since it is not backward compatible adoption of this is not very frequent!

 

HL7 Message Structure:

Each HL7 standard message (V 2.x) is composed of groups and segments where:

  • Groups contain segments or groups
  • Segments contain fields
  • Fields contain components
  • Components contain sub-components

Example HL7 Message (V 2.4):

MSH|^~\&|HMS||SystemB||201110241110||ADT^A05|99122|D|2.4|||AL|NE|||

EVN|A05|201110241109||ALE|traina|

PID||1112221212|HE1000044||JONES^SIMON^^^MR||19700912|M|||6 REDBOURNE ROAD^GRIMSBY^SOUTH HUMBERSIDE^^DN33 2UZ||01422 844745||32|2|RC|||||||||||||||01

PV1|1|1|B2^DPOW|11|1234||DONLA|G3413809||100|Do not cancel this patient||||||DONLA|I|||||||||||||||||||||DPOW||||||||||||V|G3413809^B81003

PV2||1|11|||||200609021000||4||Lap Chole||||||||||||||||||||||||

AL1|1||11

ZWL|20061124|Crocin|3|20110911|20110915|||Hep B|20111011|””||||01||||

In this example:

  • MSH, EVN, PID, PV1, PV2, AL1, ZWL – segments/groups
  • Each segment is unique on its data. For eg. PID passes only patient demographics, PV1 for patient visit, AL1 for allergies..etc
  • Each field in segment separated by delimiter. MSH segment has encoding characters (^~|&), application that’s ends data (HMS), application that receives data (SystemB)..etc fields.
  • Each field in segment can be denoted as MSH.1, MSH.2..etc
  • MSH.9 has the value ‘ADT^A05’. This is a composite field which has components ADT(Message Type) and A05(Message Name).Any subcomponent can be denoted as MSH.9.1 –ADT, MSH.9.2 –A05

Note: Version 3 HL7 is of a typical xml format.

HL7 interface architecture:

 Let’s say two healthcare systems A and B would like to have a HL7 interface for their communication needs. Here is the brief of it.

TCP protocol is used generally for HL7 messages communication. Apart from HL7, different formats of patient data (XML, text files, X12…etc) from desperate healthcare systems can be passed through HL7 interface and this can get the data in HL7 format to destination. Patient identity can be found by passing their SSN (Social Security Number) across applications.

Very own interfaces can be developed using industry dominant java/.net software. Yet there are many integration engines available. Mirth Connect, Biz talk, cloverleaf..etc are the well known HL7 interface engines available in the market.

References:

  1. http://www.hl7.org/
  2. www.uhnres.utoronto.ca/ehealth/html/glossary/eh_glossary.shtml
  3. http://www.eleccott.com/glossary1.htm

Conclusion:  Health-Care is a sensitive domain where customer/patient’s expectations are very high and welfare is expected in no-time, it is very important how well the administration takes care of its robustness in communication. By considering this, practice of HL7 protocol needs to be implemented in a big way.

 

Please feel free to share your opinion, your relation, attachment with your father in your words  in the comments below.

 
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Posted by on November 9, 2012 in Technical

 

Enhance your Communication with Mother


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

A mother’s love is unlike any other and our one-of-a-kind relationships can never be compared. Before its late, let the woman in your life know how much they mean to you by showering them with love, kind words. Aunts, sisters, grandmothers and daughters deserve special appreciation for all that they do.

It is Dedicated to every Daughter/Son of a mom — Mothers of babies, mothers of grown children, mothers who lost their babies before they were born, mothers who are yet to be, single mothers, married mothers. Enjoy the precious gift.

I am writing this article with the experiences of me, experiences of people around me & content that is collected across the globe.

Like all the Daughters/Sons, I love my mom very much, but I failed to express it. Due to small misunderstandings, arguments to some extent I missed my mom’s love. After self realization I got back to mom with love for love.

Mother-daughter relationships are complex and diverse.There also are ups and downs, no matter how positive (or prickly) the relationship

Whatever your relationship with your mother or daughter, you can always make improvements. Here’s how to enhance your communication and connection and cut down on clashes.

 

Don’t wait to make first Move:

Don’t wait for the other person to make the first move. Doing so inevitably leaves relationships stuck. “Think about how you feel in the relationship and what you can do to change.”

Communicate.

Lack of communication is a common challenge with moms and daughters. “In some ways they can be so close or feel so close that they believe that each of them should know how the other one feels,” . “What happens as a result is they don’t communicate.” Or they communicate harshly, in ways they’d never “dare speak to everyone else,” which causes hurt feelings that “don’t go away so easily,” .Instead of harshly dismissing your mom (or ignoring her calls), communicate what works best, such as: “If you want to talk on the phone, the best time is in the morning. But if you want to reach me during the day [with something] more urgent, just text me.” 

Change yourself.

Many think that the only way to improve a relationship is for the other person to change their ways. But you aren’t chained to their actions; you can change your own reactions and responses. Interestingly, this can still alter your relationship. Think of it as a dance, . When one person changes their steps, the dance inevitably changes.

Be an active listener.

Active listening is “reflecting back what the other person is saying,” instead of assuming you already know, . When you reflect back what your mom or daughter is saying, you’re telling her that she’s being heard and that you understand.

Also, listen “to the feelings underlying the message,” which is often the real message, . If “mom says, ‘you’re acting like a doormat,’ the daughter hears that as being horribly critical [and that she’s not good enough], but what the mom is really saying is, ‘I feel so protective of you because you’re not protecting yourself.’”

Repair damage quickly.

“One of the key principles in sustaining healthy and satisfying marriages is to repair damage quickly,” . Healthy couples don’t avoid conflict. They realize conflict is inevitable and they deal with it head on. This applies to mother and daughter relationships, too.

Not resolving conflict can have surprising consequences. “If you don’t deal with your mom by resolving conflict, you’re going to carry those same patterns into your future relationships,” whether that’s with your friends, partner or boss, .

Learn to forgive.

Forgiveness is “an individual act. It differs from reconciliation, which takes both people and isn’t always possible. Forgiving someone isn’t saying that what happened is OK. It’s not condoning, pardoning or minimizing the impact.

“I suggest all daughters you have to forgive your mom in order to be healthy.” “The power of forgiveness is really for the person who forgives.”

“The better you can forgive, the better you can repair damage quickly,”

Don’t bring in third parties.

It’s common for mothers and daughters to bring someone else into their conflict. A daughter might involve dad because mom is driving her crazy. Mom might involve another child because she feels like she can’t talk to her daughter. Either way, talk directly to the person.

Finally, ask yourself if you’re OK with your relationship and your actions.

Have realistic expectations.

Both moms and daughters often have idealistic expectations about their relationship. For instance, kids commonly think their mom will be nurturing and present — always. This idea can develop from an early age. When her kids were young, I found myself setting up this unrealistic belief during their nightly reading time.

Stick to the present.

Moms and daughters tend to have “an old argument that runs like a broken record in the background,” . It becomes their default disagreement. Instead, avoid “bring[ing] up old gripes from the past,” and try to focus on the present.

Balance individuality and closeness.

It can be challenging for daughters to build their own identities. Sometimes daughters think that in order to become their own person, they must cut off from their moms, . Or, quite the opposite, they’re so fused that they’re unable to make decisions without her input, . Both are clearly problematic.

But daughters can find their voices and identities within the relationship. We learn how to deal with conflict and negative emotions through our families, . “You don’t grow and develop and become your own person void of relationships.”

Put yourself in her shoes.

If you’re a daughter, think of your mom as a woman with her “own wounds and hurts,” who was born and raised in a different generation with different values and difficult family relationships and issues.

If mom really wants to hang out, instead of saying “Stop asking me, you know I’m busy,” say, “I know how much you want to meet with me, and I wish I could but I can’t do it this week; can we do it next week?”

A small piece of advice my dear friends, fall back to your parents for anything and everything. I am sure that will make our lives better. Our parents may not understand all our feelings, emotions and thoughts immediately. They may not be so educated, talented & advanced,  however I am sure they will make an honest attempt to understand us at any case. And, that attempt would always make the result fruitful. It is because they deny something or go against some of our decisions it does not mean they will do it always. They always understand and all ears to us with an unlimited unconditional eternal love. Please understand your parents & respect the love, hope, dreams & the faith that they kept on you…..

Please feel free to share your story and any lessons you learned, you experienced , you came across in your life in the comments below.

If you wish to follow my journey outside of my writing, you can find me on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/MunnaPrawin) Instagram(MunnaPrawin) and Twitter(@munnaprawin1).

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Me and My Mom


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by Sravanthi….

Hi All,

I would like to share some of my feelings that i thought of sharing with my mom, but I never.

My Mother is the best gift that was given to me by god. Having her is such a thankful and splendid treasure in our life.

I am so thankful – SO thankful – for my mother, and so fortunate to have the relationship that I have with her.  She is the strongest woman I know.  She loves her children  fiercely.  She is a fortress.  She breathes selflessness.  She is my sounding board.  She is the picture of sacrificial giving.  And she taught me how to do my very favorite thing in the universe:  be a mother.  I couldn’t be more thankful, and to borrow a phrase that she often used in reference to my brother and me:  “I couldn’t have gone to Heaven and picked out a more wonderful mom.”

Let me start off by saying that my mom is great! She is my role model and I can only hope to achieve a fraction of what she has achieved in her lifetime.My mother’s story is AMAZING and I am hoping to one day write a book telling everyone about her unbelievable challenging life’s journey, but for now I am going to ponder my relationship with my mom and how it has changed— for the better.

My mom is a tough cookie. She cares for the family a lot. From childhood I was brought up under single parenthood.I will tell you few incidents that depict my relationship with my mom.  It is a love/tolerate type of relationship. Like any relationship, we have our ups and downs.

My mom struggled a lot to get me to this position.

My mother may not be rich enough to leave me a financial legacy when she go, but a mother who sows encouragement into her child’s heart gives the greatest legacy of all.

Mom…You have always been a source of inspiration to me when it comes to hard work and not giving up. I have been lazy and sister has been lazy in her own ways, but you never gave up on us to get things done…I always love you for that…

My mother was my first teacher to write and read.

I still remember the days that I spent with her in my child hood.

She used to sit along with us through out night during exams.

She spent many sleepless nights thinking of me and my sister.

In order to feed us, she used to keep herself starving.

From my childhood I was in hostel to pursue my education. Every week she used to come to me, from my village with some special dishes. She used to walk from Bus-stop to my college which is 4 kms In order to save 5 rupees.

My mom used to get new clothes to me & my sister on every occasion, but she never purchased even a single pair.

In order to provide us better education, she sold all her property, jewellery.

She is the first person in this world to become happy, when I was on top; achieved something and when I was blessed.

When I said I am in love with Vamsi, she eacted in a positive way and done our marriage.

In so many ways, my mother have cherished me so much that she cherished her own life.

She used to care me & my sister, as if we were golden treasure.

She always prays for the goodness of our life in this world and what comes after.

She used to spend time to take good care of me. In the middle of the night, where everybody was fall asleep, my mother remains awake to check what i need.

She put her strength all together for me, and being a weak human being in physical, she could still manage to do a lot of hard works for me and family.

Even today if she come to me, she pampers me & my sister a lot.

If there was any argument between me and my sister, she used to take the pain.

Even at this age, i like to sleep with my mom placing my head on her shoulders.

I know I am miles away from my mother now. But, I will never forget what you gave me have made me special in this world. She never left hopes on me, her belief and trust made me achieve all what I have now, but I never cared you and received you with love.I thank you for all your unconditional love, care, and numerous uncountable things you have given me in life. I wish you all health, happiness and comfort forever. Please never leave me mom.

I will hold her hand; I will take care of her till my last breath.

I have decided to keep my mother in my heart with me  and welcome unconditional love and support into my life.

Please feel free to share your story and any lessons you learned, you experienced , you came across in your life in the comments below.

 
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Posted by on October 2, 2012 in Family & Relationship

 

The Art of saying “NO”


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by Susheel & MunnaPrawin….  

“No” is a simple, two letter word that can save you time, energy and precious resources when you know when and how to use it purposefully at correct time, in a correct way with the right people.

Inability to say “No” can bring a lot of harm. Being assertive is one of the toughest things for many people.  Saying no is indeed a major challenge for most people. I am telling this with my personal experience.

From last 15 years, I said yes to 95% of invites and pleas for help, regardless of how much I already had on my plate. I used to say … I’ll do it. I can help no problem. I am there for you.  Don’t worry..Sure, why not? I used to schedule things back to back to back and I used to drive myself crazy fitting it all in.

I began to feel anxious and tired instead of feeling joy as I approached the weekend. That simply would not do. Re-evaluation was in order.

That is why I am sure everyone mustn’t hesitate to say “No” in appropriate situation.

 We say ‘Yes’ when we really want to say ‘No’. We all do it very often.

Here are few situations:

A corporate person says” It was a party meeting, I couldn’t say no when the delegates forced me to take alcohol and puff the cigar.”

A college going student says “I used bear the physical harassment by my faculty, because I have fear of losing marks.”

A bride says” I was proposed to the one whom I am not interested but I don’t want to trouble my parents.”

A lover says “my girlfriend is need of money but I have no single pie to help her. If I say it may hurt our relationship so somehow I need to sort out this problem.”

A lady says “I get upset over certain topics to discuss but when I am subjected with the people I couldn’t say to excuse me from the discussion.”

An UN-matured girl says “I got into physical relationship with my boyfriend, because I have fear of losing his care, love.”

A person says “I know in long run my ‘yes’ results a failure but I don’t want to hurt then now so I couldn’t say ‘no’.”

An employee says “my boss expects me provide every time the resources which is my hard earned effort and dwindling time. It cause me inconvenience but I fear to say that I can’t provide”

A friend says “I am already full with my important schedules but my friend want to me to join his party .I don’t want to disappoint him. So, I couldn’t say that I cannot attend his party.”
“No” is a word that can save you time, energy and precious resources when you know when and how to use it purposefully. But many people like me have a difficult time saying “no” because they sincerely want to help and don’t want to disappoint others. So they take on more than they can handle, compromising the quality of performance, neglecting their own priorities, and burying themselves under mountains of responsibilities, tasks and activities that will never lead to their ultimate vision. That’s why it’s important to know when to say “no” – so rather than react to other’s demands, you respond based on your values and priorities.

I pride myself on being productive and extremely efficient all these years, maximizing my time. But even I know it’s impossible to do all of those things and say yes to all invites too. I can’t say yes to everything anymore I don’t want to.  I can’t do anything as I done in past. I’d rather just say I’m sorry, I can’t. It’s just that simple.

One of the biggest reasons people have a difficult time saying “no” is because they haven’t clarified their own intention; other people’s goals become more important than their own in the absence of a specific vision.

Learning to say “no” to non-essential tasks creates a path to freedom and success. It will clear your schedule of mental clutter so you can harness your life force and focus your attention on the realization of your goals. Having a clear vision and a strong sense of purpose gives you the discernment to know which actions yield the greatest return on investment for your time, energy and resources.

But requests for your time are coming in all the time — it can be through phone, email, IM or in person. To stay productive, and minimize stress, you have to learn the Gentle Art of Saying No — an art that many people have problems with.

For most of us, having to say ‘no’ somehow feels like a rejection, so we hate to do it. Instead, too many people just say ‘yes,’ and regret it afterward. So here are some tips that I have accumulated over the years that can help you say the right thing the right way:

It’s a simple fact that you can never be productive if you take on too many commitments — you simply spread yourself too thin and will not be able to get anything done, at least not well or on time.

Maybe you’re like me and you need to cut down on some of the activities you do. Well, here are a few tips on how you can do that:

 

Give yourself time to think. Before responding with an enthusiastic ‘yes’ that you never meant, or a cryptic ‘no’ that will ruin a relationship, ask for time to mull it over. It’s acceptable business practice to say that you need to check your calendar first, or pass the request by other principles before deciding. Commit a date for the final decision.

Make the ‘no’ a function of your constraints. Emphasize that the rejection has more to do with your priorities, budget limitations, and workload, rather than any inherent flaw in their request. In this context, encourage a return discussion as some specific point in the future, or with some specific variation.

Be logical, calm, and concise. Choose your words wisely to avoid conflict and a defensive or emotional reaction, but make sure the answer is clear and understood.

Be firm — not defensive or overly apologetic — and polite. This gives the signal that you       are sympathetic, but will not easily change your mind if pressured.

Explicitly evaluate the pros and cons. First, make sure you understand the full implications of a simple yes or no response. Every ‘no’ answer reduces the likelihood of another opportunity along the same lines, while every ‘yes’ answer increases your workload and the probability of burnout on your long list of critical items.

  Make sure you’re actually saying “no”. Make no mistake about it, no is a powerful word that you should not be afraid to wield. When it’s time to say no, you need to avoid phrases like “I don’t think I can” or “I’m not certain.” Using limp phrases instead of saying no will often be considered a yes. When it’s time to say no, just say no!

Listen to your gut. Sometimes we say ‘yes’ because we love the excitement of a new idea, when our instinct is telling us that it implies many complex issues that we are not prepared to deal with right now. It’s a fact that our brain often stores relevant information that we might not be able to vocalize right now. Trust your judgment.

Negotiate a return consideration. Often people asking for favors don’t realize or consider the cost, so you shouldn’t hesitate to ask for a reciprocal favor. It may make that person re-think their need for your help, or you may actually get more than you give.

Sandwich the no between two yeses. Sandwiching a no between two yeses ensures that your no will be more palatable. It’s also a great way to explain that to which you are already committed. For example, if your boss asks you to work on the weekend, but you have family commitments you cannot break, explain these commitments to your boss (the first yes), how that prevents you from coming in on the weekend (the no), and finish by confirming your commitment to the company and your work (the final yes) by asking if there are other ways you can contribute that don’t require you to come in that weekend. 

Be prepared to repeat yourself. If you say no and the other party pushes back, the best thing you can do is repeat yourself. This is much easier to do when you recognize beforehand that it is often necessary. In some cases, you may have to repeat yourself more than once. If you offered any explanation with your original response, you can repeat this explanation or just say no again. Don’t back yourself into a corner by trying to explain yourself further.

Lead with positives when saying no. Mute the sting of rejection by rewarding the person for being aggressive and creative, while not directly accepting the contract or proposal. It may even be appropriate to give some reward, such as access to an alternative opportunity, or recognition in front of peers, to encourage the source.

Pick the right time and place. Pick the least stressful time of the day, or a private place where you can talk sincerely, and give full attention to any questions or discussion. Watch your body language and tone to eliminate the guilt and fear that often make the ‘no’ response harder on the sender than the receiver.

Remember that there are only few hours in the day. This means that whatever you choose to take on limits your ability to do other things. So even if you somehow can fit a new commitment into your schedule, if it’s not more important than what you would have to give up doing it, you really don’t have the time in your schedule.

“The art of leadership is saying no, not saying yes, to the things where you want to say “NO”. It is very easy to say yes.”

People have learned the art of asking, so you need to learn the art of saying ‘no.’ Rid yourself of the fallacy that you must say ‘yes’ to be viewed as a leader. If the request presents a moral dilemma to you, your code of ethics should allow you to refuse, rather than lie to the other party, or agree to something you can’t deliver. Just say ‘no,’ and smile as you say it.

No is not always negative. It is not a bad or incorrect response. Saying no does not make you a difficult or uncooperative person.  Read that again, out loud. Saying no is more honest than a false yes.

Learn the Art to say “NO”…. 

 

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CAST AWAY THE CASTE SYSTEM


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by Aryan….Image

Imagine being rejected by society since birth and being denied access to certain human rights because of your birth status in the community. In this article I am not pointing any person, or any group. Just I am explaining the pain that I faced in my life.

It’s the Life’s story of a person who is still treated on the status of his birth..

26 years ago……when I was 9 years old…I had a friend called Shastri.  Shastri, I and few more friends used to play every day in our street.

One day as usually after our play I, Shastri and my friends went to his house.Sastri brought me water while I was sitting in front of his grandmother. As I was drinking water, his mother asked me “my son, what is your name?”

I said “I am Aryan”

Then she asked “which community you belong to?”

What does your father do?

Till then none asked me that question, I thought for a while to make my words and said “I am from Backward Caste.”

She became serious hearing me…She shouted bluntly at shastri and forced him to not touch the glass.

All my friends were staring at me. At that moment I felt like a thief caught while robbing. Everyone there was watching me so.

While she was screaming at shastri “he was unclean, with a filthiness that had affected his family. Clean the house” I moved from there silently.

That day I understood I was born at the bottom of Hinduism’s complex social ladder.

    Image  All these years many asked me the same question i.e. “Which community you belong to?”

I came from a poor family. When my mother asked for Fee concession to join me in school, school Principal asked “Which community you belong to?”

In the school I was made to sit in the Last rows, the reason is “I am from Backward Caste”.

Even my friends used to ask me frequently “Which community you belong to?”

Even the girl, who proposed me her love, left me because “I am from Backward Caste”.

In the college which I studied my Head of Department ask me “Which community you belong to?” in order to allow me for the Campus Recruitment Drive in the college.

You may believe it or not in even in one of my Job Interviews, Interviewer asked me “Which community you belong to?”

On the first day of my office, my colleague asked “Which community you belong to?”Image

I faced the same question from many individuals in every phase and turn of my life…

 Years later, i.e. today people call me something else.

Life is good for me, sitting in my office with good clothes, good food, good life style; it is like I am high-caste.

In the past few years I felt Caste and caste traditions lost its grip with economic growth as well as with globalization.

Recently I went to one of my colleague’s house, when we all were taking tea and chatting, suddenly her mother asked me “which community you belong to?”

I said….“I am from Backward Caste”.

Her smile vanished slowly. She said “I’ll get snacks” and moved from there.

Then I realized My Guess was Wrong…..nothing changed……

Days passed into years, years passed into decades but Hinduism’s complex social ladder still exists as a barrier in society

In caste tradition there has been no change.

I am well settled, having great family, I haven’t got any bad habits, I am well Educated, Into Great profession, I am greeted with respect on the streets. But I am from Backward Caste…

I wish to see my future generation, where none poses the question i.e. “Which Community you belong to?”

There is no universal system of caste throughout India. Image

The castes in AndhraPradesh can be divided into two distinct categories.  Brahmin, Komati, Reddy, Kamma, Velama, Kapu, Nayudu, Relli, Mala, Madiga, Yeraka, Yanadi etc., castes are based on their tribal, cultural and religious differences, while the castes like Chakali (washerman), Kummari (potter), Kammari (smith), Kamsali (goldsmith), Mangali (barber) etc are based on their duties.

With a few exceptions like the Brahmin caste, all these castes are uniquely localized in AndhraPradesh.  Each caste has a deity and distinct social formalities. The interaction between various castes is difficult because of these religious, cultural and tribal considerations.

Today, all the castes (tribes) in AndhraPradesh are categorized into four groups, viz., Forward Communities (FC), Backward Communities (BC), Scheduled Castes (SC), and Scheduled Tribes (ST).

What Do we Get?

I would like mention few funny, senseless & useless actions that many perform in their day-to-day life with casteism roots in their mind.

By appending community name with individuals name What Do we Get?

What Do we Get? by celebrating Film Actors birthday or Movie Release who belong to our community.

What Do we Get? by placing Community Persons names to geographical places

What Do we Get? by rejecting marriage proposals of children who like to marry other caste or religion person.

What Do we Get? by allowing only few community individuals into temples.

By conducting community gatherings What Do we Get?

By placing the pics or images of our community leaders What Do we Get?

By moving close with own community people What Do we Get?

By criticizing others based on race, caste, religion What Do we Get?

Even though there is no benefit from political leaders to society Why Do People support such leaders by considering community.

Why Caste Discrimination is increasing in colleges, offices.

Why to include caste, religion options in the school admission, college admission, job applications.

Think Before You Act. Community of an Individual is not Important, Character of an Individual is Important.

I don’t understand what the hell people are going to get with this diversity basing on Caste.

Did Caste  Give Birth to You…?

Is Caste going to keep you into Correct Path…?

Is Caste going to teach you Morals….?

Is Caste going to provide you livelihood or Job..?

Is Caste going to Feed You for lifelong…?

Is Caste going to change your life…?

Is Caste going to Educate you or make you literate..?

Is Caste going to fetch you Fame, Name and Health ….?

Is Caste going to make you Rich.?

Is Caste going to drag the people towards you…?

Is Caste going to add meaning to your Life….?

Is Caste going to make you Immortal?

Is Caste going to change your fate or fortune?

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The strife between various groups is part of a worldwide phenomenon, which affected all kinds of human relations for thousands of years.

The reasons for hostilities between different tribes/castes/religions/nationalities are mostly prejudice, jealousy, self-righteousness, partisan politics etc.,

 

 

Caste System discharges many dysfunctions. These are listed below.

  • Social Problems
  •  Social Inequality
  • Oppose to Democracy
  • Hindrance to the Development of personality
  • Obstacle to social progress
  • Obstacle to social unity
  • Retards Social Solidarity
  • Untouchability
  • Denies of Mobility of Labor

To avoid caste, creed feelings , lets stop differentiating and praising high or low about our religion and lets think each one as humans.
Government should stop asking about community certificates for admissions in schools and colleges.
Allotting admission seats into medical / engineering colleges based on caste should be avoided, rather it should be taken in a very fair manner or every candidate should be given opportunities,if not in that university he/she should be given seat into some other university, nominated by the government alone.

Today I think total INDIA is rooted up with the caste feeling. Many are suffering from it….

Now-a-days there is big caste feeling..but i think this is not good..for any development of human society..this is bad disease than AIDS.. so..avoid the caste feeling.

I need answers for some of the questions…..

First of all….

What is Castism???
Why this Castism???????
What is the use of castism??
Will caste helps us in any way??
Why the same caste people will group up??
Why don’t they involve other people to join them??
Why don’t they help other castes people??
Is there any way to eradicate the caste feeling in schools, colleges, offices, society, etc??
How to motivate people who feel proud of showing racial feeling???

Will there be change in the mind sets of people????

Ways to Handle Castism:

1.Do not ask caste/religion in any application form or in any survey/census like admission to school, ration card, job application etc.
2 Provide reservation to jobs and higher education in following manner: Farmer’s sons 30%, rural people 10%, physically handicapped 5% and women 5%. No reservations should be caste/religion based.
3. Abolish Waif Boards and Waif portfolio.
4. Remove religion from governance. Government should have no say in religion. Government should concentrate only on economic issues should keep quite when it comes to religion.
5.Make family planning compulsory and no one should be spared.
6. Uniform Civil Code be brought making all religions equal in the eyes of law

Is it wrong to ask this question…? If it is a mistake to ask this question…you may remove this thread…!

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I personally think,  One should have respect towards their community, but it doesn’t mean that we have to hurt the feelings, opinions, beliefs and restrict the freedom of others.

Finally I would like to conclude .. India is a country with diversity.so we should learn to tolerate and respect each others religions, caste.we should abolish religion or caste based organizations.

We, the people of India, should unite and work together for the country’s progress.we should show unity in diversity. We should abolish the system of casteism  ,racism.we should also educate others about it. Every one of us got birth in the similar fashion, with the purpose to lead a happy, meaningful and peaceful life.

Please Live and Let Live….

Please feel free to share your story and any lessons you learned, you experienced , you came across in your life in the comments below.

 
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Posted by on August 28, 2012 in Life & It's Importance

 

World of Game Testers


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by Janarthan…. 

Game testing, a subset of game development, is a software testing process for quality control of video games.The primary function of game testing is the discovery and documentation of software defects (bugs). Interactive entertainment software testing is a highly technical field requiring computing expertise, analytic competence, critical evaluation skills, and endurance.In recent years the field of game testing has come under fire for being excessively strenuous and unrewarding, both financially and emotionally.

Game Testing industry is expanding really fast and now there are many “game design” and “video game testing” openings available in market. Here is a very interesting article on game testing which will give you a brief idea about game testing industry!

Introduction To Game Testing Industry :

The video game testing industry is set to become the largest industry. In spite of the recession, there was no dearth in the sales of the game titles, although the game console sales were hit and the game testing companies had to revamp their strategies.

Gaming had its ups and downs over the years but it continues to grow leaps and bounds. Facebook application games are really path breaking with budding developers experimenting their knowledge. Episodic games are the new thing. Games for the iPhone are the new frontier.

So, no one in the game industry knows where games will be even two or three years from now. The only thing they know is that everything is changing and that the games that are released in a few years will be different from what we have now.

Getting a video game tester job is not necessarily very easy. The prime qualifications for the job / career is the ability to be a qualified video games player, playing at every level, and using as many pathways in as many different combinations as possible.

Following Jobs are made available by Gaming Industry:

  • Video game programming Jobs (designing video games)
  • Video game testing jobs

Designing Video games requires skilled and experienced video game designers. Testing video games is equally challenging as game tester needs to have a solid writing skill, very good communication skill and habit to keep attention for details.

Video game testers play critical role in game development industry. As video game programmers spend years deigning video games and video game tester needs to make sure it’s ready for release in very short time span.

Video game testing plays a crucial role in the development of new video games. Game testers put games through the paces while still in development and when finished, to ensure gamers have a good experience. Game testers conduct video game QA, or quality assurance, finding mistakes, bugs and other problems that could annoy or turn off the gaming community if they’re not fixed.

Game Testing Process?

Computer games take from one to three years to develop (depending on scale). Testing begins late in the development process, sometimes from halfway to 75% into development (it starts so late because, until then, there is little to play or test).

Once the testers get a version, they begin playing the game. Testers must carefully note any errors they uncover. These may range from bugs to art issues to logic errors. Some bugs are easy to document but many are hard to describe and may take several steps to describe so a developer can replicate or find the bug. On a large-scale game with numerous testers, a tester must first determine whether the bug has already been reported before they can log the bugs themselves. Once a bug has been reported as fixed, the tester has to go back and verify that the fix works – and occasionally return to verify that is has not reappeared.

Game Testing Strategy:

Evaluation of game rules:

Game rules adequately explain operation of all components of the game including features, free games etc. Game functions as defined by rules.

UI, Functional, Performance and Compatibility test:

Verify Games outcome and data are correctly shown when games are played. Verify Game Functionality such as Game Progress, game outcomes, handling of incomplete and re-started games, multi player games.

Verification the Integration points:

Check if game win determination aligns with game rules.

Reviewing gaming procedures:

Procedures will be reviewed by System management, player account management, tournaments and promotions.

Infrastructure and security review:

Require to verify all equipment and network implementation. Secure and reliable operation for example time synchronization, OS reliability and security.

How to Test Games?

This process is almost similar to product or web application testing. Here is the typical game testing process:

Identification: First analyze and identify the game rules and behavior

Functional Testing: Ensure game works as intended. This also includes integration testing with third party tools used if any.

OS and Browser compatibility: Most critical game testing part is to ensure game works on required Operating systems. For online games check functionality on all intended browsers.

Performance testing: This becomes critical for online games if gaming site handles betting on game. Game testers must verify if Game Testing site smoothly handles customer load.

Multi player Testing: For multi player games you need to verify the game functionality to handle all players and functionality with fair distribution of game resources to all players.

Reporting: Bug reporting to developers. Bug evidence need to produced and submitted through bug reporting system.

Analysis: Developers hold the responsibility to fix the bugs.

Verification: After the fix, bug need to be verified by the testers to confirm that it shouldn’t reappear.

 

 

1.       Check for background music and sound effects

– ON/OFF sound & background music check

– Put the device into sleep mode n check

– Receive the call and check

– Verify if sound effects are in sync with action

– ON/OFF device sound (native sound) and check

– Check for vibration effect if present

2.       User Interface

– Check in Landscape/Portrait mode

– Check for animation, movement of character, graphics, Zoom In/Out (all gestures) etc

– There should not be any clipping

– Test when one object overlaps with another

– Verify if loading indicator is displayed wherever required

– Character should not move out of the screen/specified area

– Test for enable and disable images/icons/buttons etc

– Check for screen title

– Check for message title, message description, label (should be appropriate)

– Check scrolling

– Font

– Check other objects too (ex -if it’s a car race- you need to look at road, people, other objects like buildings etc)

3.       Performance (imp)

– Check the loading time of a game

– Make sure that any action is not taking considerable time, game flow should be fast

4.       Score

– Score calculation

– Verify leader boards General/All time/Weekly/local etc

– Check the score registration functionality

– Check the format (whether, coma is required in score etc ideally if customer is a foreigner coma should be in millions not in thousands)

– Check for level completion syncs with the score

5.       Time Out

– Check for time out

– Do the actions when time-out yet to happen

6.       Multitasking

– Switch b/w different apps and play game, check for sound, score, UI, time-out etc

7.       Pause

– Check if game is paused when call received or multitasking or sleep mode

8.       Save Settings

– Turnoff and ON device, check if settings are saved

– Log out /on, check same

– User should not lose his game in above conditions

9.       User profile

– Put an all types of images in Player profile n check

– Put special character, numbers, space in username and check

– Password should be in masked

10.   Push notifications

11.   Chat feature

– Check the profile images

– Max limit of chat description

– Enter empty string, special character and check

– For an opponent, there should be a notification that he has received a message

12.   Functionality

– Check game area, game logic

– play till last level

– get the cheat codes from development team and check all the levels

– Check for the features that will be unlocked level-wise

– Check for bonus score

– Check the score hike when level gets increased

– Check for multi-tap action (example in a car race we hold accelerator and left/right turn button simultaneously)

– Menu options

– Different game modes/location

13.   Help & About Screen

– Its must

– Should be in easily understandable format

– Free from spelling mistakes

– URL should be hyperlinked (depends)

14.   Multiplayer game

– Session expiry check

– login/log out

– Registration (Sign Up)

– Verify account (receive verification mail)

– Login with registered but not verified account (without clicking verification link)

– Forgot password checks (many cases here)

– Game flow

– Check for WIN/lost/Draw

– Check user statistics graph

– Challenge/Decline challenge/receive challenge

– Check for forfeit

– Check when player 2’s turn is on Player 1 is not able to do actions (should not be able to forfeit also)

– Check for pass turn

– Check for time-out (for one player)

– Check the score for both the players till game ends

15.   Memory leak

– Check the game when device memory is low

16. N/w check

– N/w messages if n/w is not present

– Check if what happens when n/w not presents and user plays a move (whether score submitted for that move etc)

17.   Check for localization (Support of different languages)

– Check for time format

– Change the device time, format etc

18.   Size

– User won’t like if your game takes lot of device space, so keep one eye on game file size

19.   Device, OS

– Check in supported screen sizes and os versions

20.   Depends on platform

– Sometime we need to check as per os guidelines as well. For ex in Wp7 we need to check in 2 backgrounds (light/dark).


Game Testing Tips/secrets:

1) Understand Random Number Generator evaluation (RNG): This is very important to add unpredictability in game. In most games this RNG system is used to map game outcomes.

2) First identify the “game algorithm” from Source code to identify issues in game application.

3) Verify the source code for appropriate use of random numbers and error handling. (Only if you know the source code)

4) Validate and evaluate the game predefined rules.

5) Verify consistency of game rules.

6) Make sure offensive content or material is never displayed.

7) Regularly Check Game history and system event logs.

8 ) Make sure Games outcome are displayed for a reasonable time.

9) Irrespective of Single/Multi player games we need to validate bandwidth and client software.

10) Verify Minimum/maximum limits of bets, deposits and other critical game symbols.

11) Verify correct game and system operation after game fail over and recovery.

12) Always verify all reports for data accuracy. Verify reports for date, time, number of wins, money etc.

13) Test System requirements. This is very important in game testing. Verify all the infrastructure and security requirements, Game equipment, network and game synchronization with OS.

14) Make sure sufficient information is always available to users to protect game players.

Game Testing Jobs:

Gaming field is getting much better day by day and Game Career as a Game designer or tester is very bright. There are many game testing professionals making decent amount of money as a video game testers, working from home. Present Internet generation bringing massive innovations and scope to grow. IT and Non-IT people are willing to spend their free time to play online and video games. “Game testing from home” is now a new trend to earn money. We can clearly see that it’s getting into our daily activities.

If anyone of you is trying hard getting into gaming industry then you need to have interest and passion that drives you to success. Due to addition of vast and complex new games, Game QA is no longer less technical than general software QA. Game testing was widely considered as a “stepping stone” position but now it’s becoming full-time job opportunities for experienced testers.

If you have passion for games and good understanding of testing methodologies, becoming a successful game tester is not difficult for you!

Don’t let the word “game” in this job title fool you. Video game testing is a serious Job. If you think it involves whiling away the hours playing the latest games, think again. Video game testing can be as tedious and frustrating as any job. It requires an organized, disciplined approach to product testing and not just finding new ways to score high or beat the game.

Video game testers must have lots of patience, be methodical in their approach and have a keen eye for details. They must be good communicators and have some understanding of computer hardware and software. And, of course, it helps to have awesome controller skills and the hand-eye coordination needed to navigate through multiple levels of increasing challenges. Yes, being good at  video games is helpful to video game testers (but not absolutely necessary)!

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Posted by on August 27, 2012 in Technical

 

Most Annoying Traits in Co-Workers


 

Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by Sravani….

I work in a reputed organization as a Software Engineer. All these years I met different people of different mindsets, but for the first time I felt quiet irritated with the people around me in My Work Environment.

Everyone has annoying co-workers. Dealing with co-workers who are annoying is part of the job, so everyone needs to know how to effectively deal with them. Dealing with annoying co-workers also helps in dealing with other difficult people in daily life, so learning strategies to deal with annoying co-workers can assist in personal interactions as well.
The most Annoying traits that I found in the people around me.

 I have looked at some traits that I dislike in other people and hopefully am teaching my friends to avoid. I think if people could rid themselves of the following traits the World might be a better place.

Un-Invited-(Meaning =Persons who tries to indulge in the personal matters of others, persons who interfere unnecessarily). Simply we can say, these kinds of people are the worst humans on the planet. Personally few of my office mates tries to interfere in others personal matters. At that time I feel like slapping on their face, but due to few reasons I can’t do that. I don’t understand what people get , if they interfere in others matters. How can they be such shameless, senseless & manners-less bloody creatures.

“If we are rude and get a reputation for it we will continue to be rude” It’s the human tendency.

 Conceited – (Meaning = Holding a high opinion of yourself) Much like arrogance and just as annoying. It great to have a good opinion of yourself but when it is displayed to others in a manner as to make others feel small it can be very unpleasant.

 Condescending – (Meaning = showing or implying a usually patronizing descent from dignity or superiority).This is another trait which rile me. Of course this is open to interpretation in many cases. On a few occasions I have asked people if they are meaning to sound condescending and often they are embarrassed and explain that it was not their intention,so it can be a tricky one.

Show-off-(Meaning =means to boast, to act big, to demonstrate a skill or knowledge excessively & who wants themselves 2 b noticed by everyone). Side to my cabin there is a person who tries to show-off. I got fed up with his unrealistic words, actions, thoughts. He behaves as if he knows everything, but not at all.

Arrogant– (Meaning  = unpleasantly proud and behaving as if you are more important than, or know more than, other people). We’ve all come across people like this. When I think of the arrogant people I have met it seems to be mainly men that display this trait. I have also noticed that it seems to be a class trait i.e. people who are in the ‘upper class’ be arrogant with the ‘lower classes’

 Sneaky-(Meaning =To behave in a cowardly or servile manner, to act in a stealthy and cowardly manner; to behave with meanness and servility; to crouch). Sneaky person who walks quietly behind you in your cubicle to grab a sneak  at your work, hoping to find an idea he can steal?

What about a person who tries to use the use the machine of the co-workers in their absence?What about the person who in every conversation points out the inefficiency of others or the process as if we don’t already know?

The person that refuses to answer a direct question because they fear they’re going to be judged and wastes time by avoiding? 

 Bragging-(Meaning   =an instance of boastful talk,speaking of yourself in superlatives). Bragging was agreed by all to be a very annoying characteristic. Some believed that bragging seemed to be the only reason these people ever achieved anything – so they could brag about it afterwards. Bragging about one’s children was also frowned upon, not only was it unpleasant to experience but it was thought to have a negative effect on the children who were bragged about.

Rudeness – (Meaning = not polite; offensive or embarrassing) When I think of people who are rude I tend to think of some experienced dealing with fresher’s in the organization. Many feel that they know lot and everything. They ill treat others. I don’t understand what they think of others, after all they were placed just before us that’s it, nothing more.

Needy-(Meaning =People who use the other people to satisfy their needs).Everyone has an occasion when they will need the help of friends or family. However, when that becomes a constant occurrence, it becomes extremely annoying to everyone around. Needy people tend to drain the life and most often the money out of friends, relatives and coworkers.

Eventually, relationships will be ruined because others can no longer support the needy person — either emotionally or financially.

Domineering – (Meaning = inclined to rule arbitrarily or despotically; overbearing; tyrannical:
domineering parents. People who try to control others are not a good trait at all. Again this can often be seen in the office. They advice others on everything, as if they are perfect at everything.

The Fun-Sucker: These people are the worst. When you make a sarcastic remark, even if everyone else in the room is cracking up, the Fun-Sucker just stares at you as if you’re the stupidest person in the history of the planet. Fun-Suckers are basically sore losers who want the attention for themselves at all times, and no matter how genius or hilarious your comment may be, they won’t crack so much as a grin. They’re selfish, tend to be music snobs, and have been known to enjoy granola bars. Watch out.

 Dishonesty – (Meaning = not honest) The trait that I abhor the most in people! Everybody lies whether it be a white lie or a big ‘honestly I didn’t kill him’ lie. However when someone lies constantly it is very irritating and annoying especially after you have pointed out that you know they are lying and they continue with it. If you are honest all the time it will lead to people trusting you more and valuing your opinion more.

The Hypocrite: Hypocrites are almost worse than liars: they’re not only lying to you, they’re lying to themselves. They gossip about their best friends and then freak out when they hear someone else do the same; they preach against cheating on tests, but are always looking over your shoulder in Calculus. 

Hypocrites are in a permanent stage of denial, and somebody needs to slap them with a dead squirrel. Just don’t kill the squirrel yourself, because that would be creepy and gross.

 Temperamental – (Meaning = describes someone whose mood tends to change very suddenly) Sorry ladies, but I have found the most temperamental people tend to be female, especially if you’ve ever worked in an office.

Unreliable – (Meaning = cannot be relied or depended upon) another trait that can extremely annoying. Again we’ve all come across people like this at work, at school, at university, in fact every area of life. We also know, very quickly, not to rely on that person for anything.

If you recognize yourself in the list above? If you do it is easy to rid yourself of these traits. The main trick is to recognize it when it happens. As soon as you recognize you can change you. For the next few days be aware of how you interact with people around you, listen to your language, be aware of what you do when you are listening, and be aware of what you do when you are talking.

Co-workers have the ability to make a work environment pleasant or horrible. Annoying co-workers aren’t just a nuisance; they can make a work environment miserable. Dealing with an annoying co-worker every day leads to an increase in stress, which can lead to numerous health problems, including high blood pressure and frequent headaches.

Make sure to establish boundaries early on. If someone sitting and chatting with you, involving in personal matters, making fun in unrelenting matters, for extended periods is bothersome, find an excuse to get him/her out. Take a bathroom break; explain that time constraints exist, ask him not to disturb you or  ask him to shut his mouth. In cases of brown-nosing or other public annoyances, sometimes it’s just necessary to avoid these people when possible. Getting along with everyone is not possible, but civility is always necessary. If the annoyance turns into a problem that affects productivity or job satisfaction, talk to a manager to determine which options are available to remedy the situation.

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Posted by on August 24, 2012 in Experiences of Life.

 

THE UNSPOKEN WORDS


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by Susheel Sylaja….

                                      Mother is the best gift that has given to us by god. Having them is such a thankful and splendid treasure in our life.

Much love and compassion is sent to each and every person who may read this and learn how to love and be loved.

It was 5.30 pm. I was on the terrace enjoying the sunset. It was a pleasant evening.As usual I was enjoying the wind on my face. My mobile rang. I checked the number, it was my father.

With smile on my face and with anxiety I attended the call, He asked me to start to my home place immediately.

When I reached my home I was informed that my mother was suffering with health problem and she was admitted in hospital.

I was confused because I was never before exposed to such situations.

I regained my senses and my speech after a while.

We know that our time on earth is finite. Still, it is one of the most painful experiences in life.

Doctor predicted “she took all her way and finally she is well.”

I took my confidence and I tried to care her taking all my chance to serve her. But every time I tried to care for her by feeding her or cleaning her, she pushed me away softly.

I realized she did not want me to take care of her.

Because like many other grandparents and mothers do, she gave all her love for granted so she didn’t want me to take care of her.

The way I sat beside her she realized I can take care of her.Somewhere e in her confused mind there is a moment of understanding then she gave me the opportunity to serve her.

I remembered

“The days I spent with my parents were the best days in my childhood. I demanded love and attention from them and I always got it.”

When I moved ahead busy with my goals, career and life….., she used to call me at least  once a week. She used to note my wellness and health. But, I hadn’t called her even once.

I realized how much of their love we had taken for granted.

My mother spent 50 years of her life. “She” a wife and a mother of three children defended the world for her children.

When everything was lost there she fought and she lived with a hope that her children would defend her.

It is said that behind every successful person there is a woman. That may not necessarily be true; however it is true that behind every confident child there is an encouraging mother. Day after day in our impressionable years our mothers either build us up, or tear us down. A child who has a mother who is set on encouraging her/him is a child that starts off with an advantage. Our mothers may not be rich enough to leave us a financial legacy when they go, but a mother who sows encouragement into her child’s heart gives the greatest legacy of all.

Her smile-her rejection, her laugh-her anger, her presence and I looking after her are deeply overwhelming.

That moment I realized the unspoken words.

It is incredible how much comfort can be found in little things.

We live each moment just heartbeats away from our beloved people so please ensure that on any given day we say the things that we would most want the important people in our lives to know.”

A small piece of advice my dear friends, fall back to your parents for anything and everything. I am sure that will make our lives better. Our parents may not understand all our feelings, emotions and thoughts immediately. They may not be so educated, talented & advanced; however I am sure they will make an honest attempt to understand us at any case. And, that attempt would always make the result fruitful. It is because they deny something or go against some of our decisions it does not mean they will do it always. They always understand and all ears to us with an unlimited unconditional eternal love. Please understand your parents & respect the love, hope, dreams & the faith that they kept on you…I sincerely request each and everyone, please never miss your parents. They are the visible gods on earth.

There is no greater gift that you could leave behind than to have left “no words unspoken.”

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Posted by on August 14, 2012 in Family & Relationship

 

FRIENDSHIP


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

“Many people will walk in out of your life. But only true friends will leave foot prints in

your heart. “
 “As long as we have memories, yesterday remains.
  As long as we have hope, tomorrow awaits.
  As long as we have friends, our life is precious.”
 “A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to
     you when you have forgotten the words.’
To live in the hearts of others, we have to leave ours.
Friends are like stars. You can’t always see them, but you know they are there.
Hold a true friend with both your hands.
Friendship is one mind in two bodies.
Your friends reflect who you are.
Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.
You need not be the first friend.
      You need not be the best friend.
            But try to be the everlasting friend.
   Friendship is an Art.
         Which cannot be taught?
                 It only comes from Heart.
   A real friend is one who believes in you when you have lost faith in you.
My dear friends I request everyone, please don’t make friends for satisfying your personal needs. You may not know the pain that it creates, but the opposite person know it well.

 

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Posted by on August 6, 2012 in Life & It's Importance

 

My New Version Of My Life


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by Susheel shylaja….

Few months back I met a friend, since then I known her as a bubbly beloved one. She was known for her quicksilver smile, laugh, the talk and that was her charm.

One day, my friend sat before me with warm smile.

Was she the same bubbly girl whom I met few months back? I just thought….

She has really come a long way from the time I met her, I was thrilled because her whole personality has developed, really cool.

I am listening to her words staring at her…, her lips smiled as never done before.

I said her, “I see change in you my dear”.

“Uh, only one thing has changed in me”, she replied in a sweet voice….

“What’s that?” I asked

MY smile “she said with a cute smile on her face.

Some smiles are warm while others are cold. There are real smiles and fake smiles.

I trained my lips to smile over my face and overflow into my eyes.”

I remembered her contagious laugh while she is speaking…

She said “At certain point in every one’s life some things just cause to shift your whole thinking. It may be a teacher, a mother, a pet, a stranger …………….

In my case he started a chapter to shift my whole thinking,

   “HE”…………………….

   A philosopher, a foolish…

   A teacher, UN professional…..

   A well-wisher, not my blood……

   A companion, an unacceptable…

   Unbelievable and incredible…..

The time I spent with him, the person I became,

I don’t know for what purpose, he entered into my life. He made me know the purpose of my life.

He gave his helping hand to pull me out of my horrible life, which I was leading till that moment.

He is the only Great thing, which happened to me, in all these years of my Life’s journey.

The moments that I spent with him are very precious, valuable, meaningful and unforgettable.

I learned many things through his words, actions, thoughts, ideas, ideologies, principles, behavior and approach towards life.

He is the only person, who made me realize where I am standing in this world and purpose of my Life.

He changed my entire world, he was someone who understood my pain, my demands, my happiness, my dreams, my aspirations someone who tolerated my angry but now known that it is time to move on to a newer turn.

I am one among, the luckiest humans to taste his Unconditional love.

When I lost hope and Interest on life, He entered uninvited like a Ray of Hope.

He touched me like a breeze and added everlasting fragrance to my life.

He made me, to be myself by making me as strong as his Will Power.

Initially I thought he is a part of my life, but later I Realized He is my Life.

I wish him well and thank him for adding meaning to my life.

I would like to follow his foot prints till my last breath.

Even today, I remember his first words…. “Be Yourself, Never Compromise in Life”.

I know for sure I will live like this for the rest of my life with the hope that was given by him.

While she was speaking I observed her eyes were intense, still with warm smile on her lips

My friend has made a decision to take her share from life with her smile magically.

But she never knows it is the shadow in her made a decision reaching out for change.

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Posted by on August 3, 2012 in Experiences of Life.

 

It’s an Android World


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by Munna prawin….

This article was posted in order to help out the Android Developers to give an idea about Android Development. Here are some of the useful links..

Operating Systems have developed a lot in last 15 years. Starting from black and white phones to recent smart phones or mini computers, mobile OS has come far away. Especially for smart phones, Mobile OS has greatly evolved from Palm OS in 1996 to Windows pocket PC in 2000 then to Blackberry OS and Android.

Android, the world’s most popular mobile platform.

World is contracting with the growth of mobile phone technology. As the number of users is increasing day by day, facilities are also increasing. Starting with simple regular handsets which were used just for making phone calls, mobiles have changed our lives and have become part of it. Now they are not used just for making calls but they have innumerable uses and can be used as a Camera , Music player, Tablet PC, T.V. , Web browser etc . And with the new technologies, new software and operating systems are required.

Android powers hundreds of millions of mobile devices in more than 190 countries around the world. It’s the largest installed base of any mobile platform and growing fast—every day another million users power up their Android devices for the first time and start looking for apps, games, and other digital content.

One of the most widely used mobile OS these days is ANDROIDAndroid is a software bunch comprising not only operating system but also middleware and key applications. Android Inc was founded in Palo Alto of California, U.S. by Andy Rubin, Rich miner, Nick sears and Chris White in 2003. Later Android Inc. was acquired by Google in 2005.

Android gives you a world-class platform for creating apps and games for Android users everywhere, as well as an open marketplace for distributing to them instantly.

Android Tutorials:

http://www.vogella.com/articles/Android/article.html

http://developer.android.com/training/basics/firstapp/index.html

http://www.javacodegeeks.com/p/java-tutorials.html#Android App Tutorials

http://www.learnerstv.com/Free-Computers-Video-lectures-ltv461-Page1.htm

http://mobile.tutsplus.com/tutorials/android/introduction-to-android-development/

http://thenewboston.org/list.php?cat=6

http://www.ibm.com/developerworks/opensource/library/os-android-devel/

https://sites.google.com/site/io/

Articles on Android Development:

http://mobiforge.com/developing/story/getting-started-with-android-development

http://mobilizemedia.com/category/our-blog/android-development/

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Android_(operating_system)

http://mobiledevices.about.com/lr/android_development/1537403/2/

Blogs on Android Development:

http://android.opensourceror.org/

http://davanum.wordpress.com/

http://commonsware.com/Android/

http://saigeethamn.blogspot.in/search/label/Android

http://www.curious-creature.org/category/android/

Usage of WebServices in Android Apllications:

http://www.c-sharpcorner.com/1/247/android-programming.aspx

http://pjava.wordpress.com/2011/03/22/call-soap-web-service-from-android-application/

http://jatin4rise.wordpress.com/2010/10/03/webservicecallfromandroid/

http://jatin4rise.wordpress.com/2010/10/03/webservicecallfromandroid/

http://www.c-sharpcorner.com/UploadFile/88b6e5/how-to-call-web-service-in-android-using-soap/

https://groups.google.com/forum/?fromgroups#!topic/android-developers/h23iTA2tMCA

http://jatin4rise.wordpress.com/2010/10/03/webservicecallfromandroid/

http://jatin4rise.wordpress.com/2010/10/03/webservicecallfromandroid/

http://www.helloandroid.com/tutorials/using-ksoap2-android-and-parsing-output-data

http://www.codeproject.com/Articles/112381/Step-by-Step-Method-to-Access-Webservice-from-Andr

http://www.wiseandroid.com/post/2010/06/14/Android-Beginners-Intro-to-Resources-and-Assets.aspx

http://java.dzone.com/articles/invoke-webservices-android

http://www.anddev.org/calling_a_web_service_from_android-t348.html

http://sarangasl.blogspot.in/2011/10/android-web-service-access-tutorial.html

http://mobileorchard.com/android-app-development-calling-web-services/

http://www.itcsolutions.eu/2011/03/03/how-to-consume-web-services-from-android-applications-using-ksoap2/

http://romenlaw.blogspot.in/2008/08/consuming-web-services-from-android.html

http://lukencode.com/2010/04/27/calling-web-services-in-android-using-httpclient/

http://seesharpgears.blogspot.in/2010/11/basic-ksoap-android-tutorial.html

http://www.javacodegeeks.com/2011/02/android-xml-binding-simple-tutorial.html

http://wiki.javaforum.hu/display/ANDROIDSOAP/Home

http://wiki.javaforum.hu/display/ANDROIDSOAP/Step+by+step+tutorial

Android Terminology & Useful Sites:

Here * marked sites are the frequently reffered sites by Android Developers.

http://www.herongyang.com/WSDL/Terminology-WSDL-Related-Terminology.html

http://www.tutorialspoint.com/wsdl/index.htm ******

http://www.w3schools.com/wsdl/wsdl_ports.asp

http://www.ibm.com/developerworks/library/ws-intwsdl/

http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/soapbuilders/message/3204

http://www.seas.gwu.edu/~shmuel/cs338/Introduction%20to%20WSDL.htm  ******

http://www.w3.org/TR/2004/WD-wsdl20-20040803/

http://w2ks.dei.isep.ipp.pt/labdotnet/recursos/wsdl.pdf

http://docs.xamarin.com/android/tutorials/consuming_web_services *************

http://code.google.com/p/wsdl2ksoap/issues/searchtips *******

http://oreilly.com/catalog/webservess/chapter/ch06.html *******

http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/ms996486.aspx ********

http://www.sparxsystems.com/uml_tool_guide/xml_technologies/wsdl_namespace.htm ****

http://stackoverflow.com/questions/2294325/why-is-wsdl-namespace-interjected-into-action-name-when-using-savon-for-ruby-s

http://www.tutorialspoint.com/wsdl/wsdl_example.htm ****

http://javatutorialspoint.blogspot.in/2012/02/android-web-service-access-using-ksoap2.html  ********

http://social.msdn.microsoft.com/Forums/pl-PL/wcf/thread/aa85ee49-efb2-4f75-87e1-9899b25782b0 *****

http://stackoverflow.com/questions/11547046/problems-getting-ksoap2-client-to-talk-to-php-based-webservice ********

http://stackoverflow.com/questions/11547046/problems-getting-ksoap2-client-to-talk-to-php-based-webservice ********

http://code.google.com/p/ksoap2-android/wiki/Links *************************************

 

The above information was collected from different people & from various websites….

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Posted by on August 2, 2012 in Technical

 

TO BE WHOLE AGAIN


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by Susheel….

It’s just not a writing; It’s the life of a person with unconditional love, who touched my heart with love and added fragrance to my life.

In his words……

I faintly remember being wheeled into hospital. Someone was talking to me. I opened my eyes for few seconds only to close them again.

I remember pain; when probe was inserted into by body. I felt disgusting. I remember being helped onto bed. I tried to open my eyes, but couldn’t.

I felt a hand on my forehead, opened my eyes to see my beloved one but……… reality was in front of me.

Fear ran through me, my love will never be back. For a moment, I reflected back on my past. Every moment flashed in my eyes…

Who had not valued my shared love enough?

I felt it is tough to walk away from the world, that I created bit by bit over years but not one emotion out all of them has a trace of regret. I cherish the moments I spent with my love but doesn’t wish to relive the old times.

When the commitment is dishonored, the least one can do is to honor oneself.

From then I started my journey like a breeze touching each and every soul with love and care..

I fought and fighting the pain, pain of me and pain of my people.

I spent many sleepless nights, to make my people sleep comfortably, by taking their pain on shoulders. I never help anyone, but I make them to help themselves.

I decided to leave my emotions, wishes, interests, ideals, goals because, they are not so important than my fellow beings. From that day I started to treat everyone as part of my family and I started feeling responsible.

I decided to leave my Heart to live in the Heart of others.

I took an oath to make myself as a foot path, to make fellow beings to reach their destination safely.

I helped me to know the value of miracle called “Life” for which all takes for granted but for which I was willing to fight till the end.

Sustaining my hope to make sustain my people hope. Even though I lost Hope on my life, I like to fill the Hope in the lives of fellow beings.

In my life’s journey I met thousands of people who left their foot prints in my life. Each one is unique and relation with each one is a lesson, memory, experience and a sweet pain.

No matter what happened, no matter how many times I fall apart, I gather myself and ready to fight.

I am just a business man, who gather love and sell it to people, in return of love.

I Realized and making others realize, falling apart is to become whole again

Fiinally I can say onething, that my life is a journey with no destination, moving forward in search of love by spreading love to the people, who are in need of it.

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Posted by on August 1, 2012 in Experiences of Life.

 

Don’t Quit


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by Vinamra….

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,  

When the road you’re truding seems all uphill,  

When the funds are low, when the debts are high,  

And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,  

When care is pressing you a bit,

Rest if you must, but don’t you quit.  

Life is queer with its twists and turns,

As everyone of us sometimes learns,  

Don’t give up though the pace seems slow,

You may succeed with an blow.  

Success is failure turned inside out,  

The silver tints of the clouds of doubt,

And you can never tell how close you are,

It may be near, when it seems so far;

So stick to the fight when you’re the hardest hit,

It’s when things seem worst, that you must not quit……    

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Posted by on July 30, 2012 in Life & It's Importance

 

What to name this relation?


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by Susheel Sylaja….

PRAWIN you are one of the great thing, that happened to me in my life. I am placing the words that I thought about you in your presence and in your absence..

It’s really an honor to me, to work with you and be a part your life’s journey.

Do we choose relations in our lives?

I didn’t choose my parents, my brothers, my sisters they happened to be in my life. Many relations happened in my life, the same way you happened. But you made a difference by how best you happened. I trust and love my parents because my blood. I trust, love and respect you though you are not my blood.

What have you given me that make me respect u so much…..?

Although like every human I want to love and be loved, I fear both. But u made me realize “trust makes you never feel afraid of being used, being misunderstood or being hurt but just makes feel free to give oneself fully to beloved one.

I watch you when you are in front of me, “I perceive how selfless you are, how open you are, how close you are to others and how sweet behind the harsh words”.

I perceive how you love all young and elders not just to be nice but because you see they have something to value.

I perceive how you balance happiness, sadness and humility.

I wonder how you overlook the praises when everyone around shower on you.

I feel warm by your presence and your words.

I feel accepted whenever I’m near you, even though I’m far from your way of perceptions, principles and values.

At times you give hope to laugh away darkness. At times you make smile and sometimes cry.

At times you’ll be a reason to make a step for glory.

You are neither world famous but been world to all who invited you into their lives

“I have never met someone like you who has so much pride and respect for yourself and your loved ones”.

One can never know what may come in life but I feel u never give up your faith. The reason is you make yourself a stick to guide where you want to go.

I one among your memories,

“Why it happened? How it happened? Where does it go?

Not that it mattered. Because” knowing, you love us all for we are beings, i.e humans. Can I name this relation?”Just by word love.

The respect, trust and love growing for you each day. Where do I get the words from, when you impact to make clear ambitions, goals and make life more beautiful?

I am making no expectations from you.

I am not waiting for anything in return. All I want is you live with health and happiness forever…..

You are really good in the way you are, please lead the life as per your expectations. I need not suggest or advice you, because you are PRAWIN.

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Posted by on July 29, 2012 in Family & Relationship

 

Don’t Get Misguided


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by Shanmukhi…..

Mothers are the best gift that has given to us by god. Having them is such a thankful and splendid treasure in our life.

I am Shanmukhi; Today I would like to share the mistake that I made in my life.

I lost my Father when I was 14 years old. I know how my mom struggled all these years to make me and my sister stand in this respectable position. I only recently realized that I hated my mother because by hearing most of the friends words.

Growing up in a single parent household is challenging because I always felt so dependent on my mother for survival. But the older I get the more I see that my life is suffering because of the friends who misguided me from my mom.

Till my intermediate I had a decent relationship with my mother. After joining into b tech, I got 3 new friends sinduja, ravi, and pavani. I love them all because they shown the love and I was impressed by their caring. In the initial days they are so friendly and they used to respect my likes & dislikes. Among them Mr. Ravi love me lot. He expressed his interest to marry, but I told I am sorry, but also he used to take care of me.

From then each & every decision in my life is taken by them. After few days, they started pointing my weakness & negatives in me, but I never spoke anything, because that time I have a fear of losing them. My friends have always said bad things about my life, restrictions posed by mom, many like that and their way of words influenced me. I have never been able to connect emotionally with my mother.

I don’t know why my friends never liked my mom? They used to ask me, to avoid my mother for number of reasons. I thought their words are correct and all these years I avoided her. They used to say that, why do you talk to your mother for long time avoid her and made me stay away from my mom. I believed their words. I followed their words blindly. Even my dressing, way of behavior, eating habits, life style everything was decided by them. At one point I felt really unhappy with my life. I was not given any chance to express my feelings. They used to ask me to share everything, but when I tried none of them received or cared of my emotions & my hearts pain.

After my education I came to Bangalore job search. Even my professional was influenced by them. They used to compel me even in attending interviews. I simply did whatever they told to me.

Now I am really feeling bad of my past. If I look back and see, I am nowhere in my life, not even my mother. Even now I don’t understand how I simply believed such senseless and unusual friends who took away my personal life from my mother, who’s everything to me.

Recently by seeing few incidents, I realized what mistake I made.  Now I feel like moving back to mom.

Few days back I am at a cross roads in my life. And I feel more lost than ever. And the fact that my friends, who seem so settled in their lives, have misguided me. I can’t complain about anyone. It’s my mistake to disregard my mother by listening such stupid words.

For many years my mother is alone looking eagerly for my arrival. Now I am feeling really ashamed of the things that I have done. I can’t forgive myself. I even feel that I don’t have eligibility to live on the Earth. I know how really my mom worked to take care me and my brother. She spent many sleepless nights crying for us. I don’t know how I have done this to her.
My advice to everyone is that, please don’t listen anyone words and disregard your parents and do the same mistake I have done. Parents are everything.

I know I am miles away from my mother now. But, I will never forget what she gave me have made me special in this world. You never left hopes on me, your belief and trust made me achieve all what I have now, but I never cared you and received you with love. Please Forgive Me Mom.. I thank you for all your unconditional love, care, and numerous uncountable things you have given me in life. I wish you all health, happiness and comfort forever. Please never leave me mom.

Please forgive me mom. I will hold your hand; I will take care of you till my last breath.

I have decided to keep my mother in my heart with me  and welcome unconditional love and support into my life.

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Posted by on July 19, 2012 in Experiences of Life.

 

Are you Proud to be a Woman?


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

The article was written by Susheel Sylaja.

Woman holds many different roles in one’s life as mother, wife,  sister,  teacher, friend …..

In ancient India, women occupied a very important position, in fact a superior position to, men. It is a culture whose only words for strength and power are feminine -“Shakti” means “power” and “strength.” All male power comes from the

Take a pride that we have come out of the culture where women were seen as just reproducers. Today she openly displays her power, knowledge and skill, receiving public recognition and honor.

Woman often fight for her home, her people. Yet she faces humiliation in every aspect of her life.

A home maker says “he come home drunk and kick me with his boots.” Who knew when I met the love of my life I would have such blows.

A working woman says” He was irate when he came home. He asked to clean up the mess so he could rest. I thought to prepare a cup of tea for him and was about to move to kitchen. He thought I was ignoring him, He hit me in my eye.”

What kind of thinking make us behave so badly? What makes us of believe we have a right to hit woman?

Why does a woman be helpless victim at men mercy?

Is that the attitude of common man who:

”the difference between mother and wife is –we take life from the former and get into the life of latter”

Is it that “we are grown up in a society which believe men are superior to women”

Let us see the excuses that men make from millennia to hit a women:

“I am very short-tempered there’s a lot of stress and problems in my life so it comes out like this.”

“I get violent with my wife because I love her so much my love for her comes out in this way.”

“I become angry because she don’t understand me.”

“I don’t like her because she tries to restrict me in all the things.”

Then why don’t you accept if your wife also show the love and anger in same way as u do.Realize the influence of such acts on family.

God created men and women to build life together and to complete one another all lifelong.

Women are self-sacrificing, gentle, patient, caring… Recognize the importance of her in our lives.

God made us special
He made our arms to control the weight of world.
He made our shoulders, our childs feel happiness on them
.

In modern world women degrading themselves as well as allowing others to degrade them.

Are we ,women aware of our power, values, rights and proper position in the family, in work place and in the society ?

Are you proud to be a women? 

Please contribute your views, ideas, thoughts, demands,worries and happiness here. Gentle men , you can also take part in this.

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Posted by on July 6, 2012 in Life & It's Importance

 

I LOVE MY PAA


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me…….

By Varalakshmi Davu..

FATHER is the one who makes their children feel protected..

 My Father is the world to me..

He is as as sweet as nectar, as brave as a lion. v1-001

He is a very strong man who worked hard to give me and my Sister a good life. He was always there when we needed him, He is my teacher..

He follows our interests and cooperate with us in play or doing tasks rather than forcing us to follow his own preferences and He responds quickly to the needs expressed by us..

 Unforgettable Moment

When I’m in 5th class we constructed our own house  at that time  we had a money problem, my dad was in a hurry to go out then I went with my sis and hand over all our savings for construction on the spot my dad kissed me on my forehead and tears were rolled down from his eyes..

My dad is my role model. There were many struggles and difficult times, but out of it all, my dad emerged. I don’t believe that any man could ever love me as much as my dad does..

He was always punctual, honest and he has a good sense of humor.. When I’m in home he usually crack jokes only on me..

In My Next Birth I want you as my child…And I enjoy being with you..

Father is Important in Children life Bcoz he is the only person who can give healthier family as well as healthier future for his child..

For the best dad who always had a smile for me.
Though we may be far apart right now,
But here’s a big hug and kiss for you
To let you know how special you are
Daddy, I love you so, You are my inspiration, You are a picture of strength and serenity, And I shall love you till eternity!
Happy Fathers Day

Thanks to you Father for all the care, sacrifices and affection.

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Posted by on July 1, 2012 in Family & Relationship

 
 
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