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Life is short. Time is fast. No replay. No rewind


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

Enjoy, enjoy and enjoy. We all have the power to shape our day and our life, so no matter what is happening in our lives we can make the decision to be happy and enjoy every moment . You are here in this world for a short period of time. Therefore, you must enjoy each and every single moment of your life. If you don’t want to enjoy your life then you are no more a living person.

 Life is short. Time is fast. No replay. No rewind. So enjoy every moment as it comes.

 Get up early in the morning. Go for a swift walk. Enjoy listening to the chattering of birds. Enjoy looking at the beautiful colourful IMG_20150103_131635-001flowers. Do some workout/stretching in the nearby park. Fill your lungs with pollution free fresh air. Isn’t it all exciting and enjoyable.

 Enjoy your breakfast. Breakfast is the most important meal of the day so your breakfast must include a variety of nourishing food such as fruit, juice, milk, bread, cereals, egg, jam, jelly, honey, dried nuts, tea, coffee etc.

 Enjoy your work. Start your work by saying hello to everyone in the office. Pass some positive remarks about your colleagues. Be crazy and make a lively, healthy environment. Enjoy talking to your clients, colleagues, friends and family members. Make every effort to complete your work in time.

 Enjoy every single bite of your lunch. Don’t eat in a haste. Eat in a tension-free and stress-free atmosphere. Don’t eat in a haste. Eat the kind of food that is light on stomach but quite nourishing so that you get the much needed physical as well as emotional energy, during the day.

 After satisfactorily finishing your work, it’s now time to leave office and enjoy. Enjoy your leisure time in the manner you wish to enjoy by involving yourself in activities like reading, writing, studying, swimming, boating, dancing, visiting friends, learning new skills, playing outdoors, playing indoors, watching TV , watching movies, listening to your favourite music, enjoying food in your favourite restaurant, going on long drive, etc.

 Don’t engage yourself in activities that can bring problems to your life. Don’t invite trouble. Live a disease-free, smoke-free, stress-free and drugs-free life. Don’t involve yourself in any criminal activities and don’t do anything that is illegal or immoral.

IMG_20150104_120831692-001 Now and then plan for outings or tours with your family & friends. It helps you in coming out of the normal routine life. Leave all your worries and enjoy every moment like kid

 Difficult times in life come and go but keep your spirits high even in the worst type of crisis. Face challenges of life with courage and a positive state of mind. Take lessons from your past mistakes but don’t feel guilty. Laugh at silly things and enjoy life. Laughter is the best medicine.

 It is my own experience that you get the best kind of enjoyment when you help those who are helpless and look towards you for help. I personally feel great excited when I am able to help such people. There is nothing more enjoyable than enabling other people enjoy their lives. Enjoy your own life and let others enjoy theirs.

You will not live forever, so till you are alive, enjoy every moment of your life from the core of your heart.

Please feel free to share your story and any lessons you learned, you experienced , you came across in your life in the comments below.

 

You are the Other heart of My Heart


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

Article by Wife of a Wonderful Husband…

I can remember the first moment that I saw your face. You were looking at me as I am a different species and I was annoyed by your look, yet you seem very familiar to my heart. When you were around me I was very anxious and thought the reason is I don’t like you much. I was in my own mess of love at that time and didn’t believe in love much. Somehow you managed to steal my heart and we began our life journey together six years back.  I cannot express how much I love you and how much our life together means to me.

Since the moment we started our life journey, you have being my Father, my strength, my weakness, my Child, my best friend, and my life. Though we are so different from each other, we both also have a weird, silly side to us that perfectly match. Sometimes I think these differences make us work and happy. S1

You always read me better than I read myself. You lift me up when I am down. You always encourage me and support me on working out my plans. It doesn’t matter to you whether I am fat or skinny, beautiful or ugly, you always admire and respect me. You always think about my happiness and comfort. Sometimes you are a big father to me. Sometimes you irritate me with your advice’s, but I always know that those are true and glad you are alongside me.

I am so sorry for the times when I fell short. You are so forgiving, kind, thoughtful and giving. I really could not ask for more. You are such a hard worker and a determined man.  My prayers for us are to love each other more every day and to happily enjoy a long life together.

Sometimes you annoy the hell out of me. You spend so much time on your computer with headset on and you can’t hear what I am saying. So I have to scream or have to hit you to get your attention. Sometimes you ask so many questions just to irritate me. You don’t talk to me or don’t even look at me when you are angry, and you keep staying like that for hours or even for days. But still I love all those things too.

I know our life is not perfect, yet it is perfect for us, though it’s not a fairy tale. I am glad about the decision I took six years back to be your wife and that’s the best choice I have made in my entire life. Thank you for being my life partner and my life coach. Thank you for accepting me as I am and not trying to change me.
I just want you to know that I love you. You have been such a blessing for me. I’m so happy to be your wife. I want to continue to take care of you with all I have till the end of my life. Life is just so beautiful with you. You are love of my life. Thank you for all that you do for us and thank you for being who you are.

You listen to me. You talk to me. You hold my hand. You smile at me. You are my husband, the love of my life and I will always be thankful for YOU!

I love you more than yesterday and surely less than tomorrow. You are the best thing happened to me in my life. On this wonderful day, I wish more years to be with you and grow old together.!!!!

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Daddy’s Little Girl ✿ ✿ ✿


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

Article by Cute Daughter of a Lovely father…

Dear Dad,

I’d like to take a minute or two to express my never-ending gratitude for all that you do.

Dad You are my guide, friend, teacher, well wisher, teacher, opponent, strength, weakness. You are everything to me. I’d like to hold your hand till my last breath.

Love You Dad

Being a father is no easy task. A father makes a huge impact on his daughter’s life. He is the first man she says “I love you” to, and the first man to really show her what love is.

To be honest, I can’t remember a time when you weren’t there for me — not only as a father, but as a best friend. As a child, you were my favorite playmate.

From teaching me how to walk or throw a ball, you’ve showed me ways to stand on my own two feet. A dad’s job is not only to protect his little girl, but also to show her how to defend herself when, one day, he is not around.

As much as I want to thank you, I also want to apologize. Raising a teenage girl might be one of the biggest challenges a father goes through. Speaking from my own experience, I’m sorry for any grey hairs I’ve caused you in the past.

Even though we don’t always understand each other, you’re one of the biggest influences in my life.

A father is the one who guides his daughter through life.

Whether it was a school play, sporting event, graduation or any defining moment in my life, you’ve always been one of my biggest fans. Wherever I end up, I hope I make you proud.

Thank you for offering your shoulder to cry during hard times. You comforted me without even saying anything; you put your arm around me and opened your ears to all of my jumbled words and tears. Thank you for patience.

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Thank you for being exactly who you are to my mother, so that I can know in the inner strings of my heart that love exists and that I will find it for myself. Even in my own life when I lost hope, you showed me that love is the strongest force in the universe. Thank you for teaching me to never let go once I find it, and fight for it when I need to.

Every little girl grows up looking up to her dad, but I’ve never stopped. I know there’s no such thing as a perfect dad, but you come pretty close.

I can’t write any more. The tears are falling and the ink is fading. I haven’t really been myself lately​

Thank you for believing, for hoping, for smiling, for laughing, for teaching, for loving, for supporting, for showing, and for praying. In short, thank you for everything. 

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Live A Stress Free LIfe


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

Hello beautiful people,

First I want to apologize for the lack of posts it’s getting towards the end of the year so I’ve been swamped with personal and professional life. So that got me thinking today I should write a post about how to live life under stress and how to manage your life!

“If you ask what is the single most important key to longevity, I would have to say it is avoiding worry, stress and tension. And if you didn’t ask me, I’d still have to say it.”

Stress is a major problem for many people — a hectic, stressful job, a chaotic home life, bills to worry about, heavy syllabus for exams and bad habits such as unhealthy eating, drinking and smokiimages (1)ng can lead to a mountain of stress.

If your life is full of stress, like mine once was, there are some simple things you can do to get your life to a more manageable level.

I won’t guarantee that all of these will work for you. They worked for me, but each person is different. Pick and choose the ones that will work best for you, and give them a try. One at a time.

  • Accept yourself. If you can’t accept the way you are, change it. Because if you are too worried about that extra fat, or your extremely long hair, your other worries will just start building up again. And if you can’t change it, you will have to accept it, because that’s who you are. And you really can’t change it.
  • Be early. I will admit that it’s hard to be early when you have to get 3 kids ready (my brother, sister & Myself.. seriously — try it!). But being late can be very stressful. Try to leave earlier by getting ready earlier, or by scheduling more space between events. Things always take longer than normal, so schedule some buffer time: extra time to get ready, to commute, to do errands before you need to be somewhere, to attend a meeting before another scheduled appointment. If you get somewhere early, it’s good to have some reading material.
  • One thing at a time. This is the simplest and best way to start reducing your stress, and you can start today. Right now. Focus as much as possible on doing one thing at a time. Clear your desk of distractions. Pick something to work on. Need to write a report? Do only that. Remove distractions such as phones and email notifications while you’re working on that report. If you’re going to do email, do only that. This takes practice, and you’ll get urges to do other things. Just keep practicing and you’ll get better at it.
  • Have Good Sleep. If you don’t get enough sleep you end up being touchy and snappy. In order to establish a good rule of thumb for sleep is to go to bed whenever you’re tired, and wake up at the same time each day (weekend or not!). This way, you will get the right amount of sleep!
  • Simplify your schedule. A hectic schedule is a major cause of high stress. Simplify by reducing the number of commitments in your life to just the essential ones. Learn to say no to the rest — and slowly get out of commitments that aren’t beneficial to you. Schedule only a few important things each day, and put space between them. Get out of meetings when they aren’t absolutely essential. Leave room for down time and fun. f57dcd33f9d9605bf44103778254ea29
  • Get moving. Do something each day to be active — walk, hike, play a sport, go for a run, do yoga. It doesn’t have to be grueling to reduce stress. Just move. Have fun doing it.
  • Develop one healthy habit this month. Other than getting active, improving your health overall will help with the stress. But do it one habit at a time. Eat fruits and veggies for snacks. Floss every day. Quit smoking. Cook something healthy for dinner. Drink water instead of soda. One habit at a time.
  • Don’t take things personally. Most of the time, people say things as a joke, and you have to learn to recognize that. And if they really mean it, remember that they probably aren’t even worth your time. (and if it’s someone you are close to who is just mad at you, they probably don’t mean it either)
  • Do something calming. What do you enjoy that calms you down? For many people, it can be the “get moving” activity discussed above. But it could also be taking a nap, or a bath, or reading, or having sex (which can also be considered a “get moving” activity if you do it for longer than 5 minutes). Other people are calmed by housework or gardening. Some people like to meditate, or take a nature walk. Find your calming activity and try to do it each day.
  • Simplify your finances. Finances can be a drain on your energy and a major stressor. If that’s true with you, figure out ways to simplify things. Automate savings and bill payments and debt payments. Spend less by going shopping (at malls or online) much less. Find ways to have fun that don’t involve spending money.
  • Have a blast! Have fun each day, even if it’s just for a few minutes. I like to play with my kids — they take my mind off everything and are really hilarious. I also like to play sports (again, often with my kids). Board games are fun. Sex, again, can be a fun activity. Whatever you choose, be sure to laugh.
  • Get creative. Throwing yourself into a creative activity is another great way to de-stress and to prevent stress. I like writing, but others like to paint or play music or sketch or make pottery or do interior design or build things.
  • Declutter. This is a favorite of mine. I like to take 20-30 minutes and just go through a room, getting rid of stuff we don’t use or need anymore. I look around at anything that’s cluttering up a room, and get rid of it or find a better place for it. When I’m done, I have a nice, peaceful environment for work, study, play, and living. Do this a little at a time — it can be one of your “fun activities”.

I know many of you are in college or high school and are probably facing problems probably working and trying to balance your time as well. I surely don’t have the solution to all of this but I do have some helpful tips.

Tips for Students:  

  • Get a day planner and use it and then get a calendar and use that as we’ll! Knowing when things stockvault-pose-on-the-side-of-the-beach109478are due and what is coming up will help you stay organized and recognize what needs to be done first!
  • Another tip I have is to take breaks don’t try and do everything at once you will loose your mind so take a little break here and there to take a breath, count to ten, listen to a song,or read a few pages I your favorite book. Believe me when you are an overwhelmed that little break can feel like a good nights sleep.
  • Finally my last thing of Advice will give you is to avoid stress once you get in to full blown stress it is very hard to get out of it. I personally get a panicky anxiety feeling when I am over stressed I always need to remember when I start to feel that way I need to walk away for five minutes just because I will get nothing done in that state of mind.

I hope some of these things could help you you all are so smart you can do anything so don’t let stress stop you.

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Posted by on December 7, 2014 in Experiences of Life.

 

STOP GIVING MONEY


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

“Why is sleeping child in the hands of beggars? Have you ever wondered … ”

Please read…..

Most of the Beggars on the busy streets and subways operate in gangs, and to cash people’s sentiments – they even hire babies and drug them to sleep. It is a fact, it has happened and is happening in few places around the world.

941241_571208322924416_802627689_nYou may think you are helping a mother feed her young ones. If so, think about these issues.

A – Thousands of babies are abducted everyday for the begging “business”.
B – Many babies are mutilated and disabled for life to extract sympathy from onlookers.
C – Almost of all of these babies are drugged and incapacitated while being taken out on “business”.
D – A mother will seldom use her children to get alms from someone else. Most of these babies are “rented” on a daily basis from cartels.
E – Not even a paisa of what you give will reach these hapless babies.

If approached by women carrying a baby and begging for money. Please do not give them money.

These women actually make the babies look pathetic so as to try and appeal to the public’s sympathy, by using such babies. I have heard that when one woman takes rest, the baby is handed over to other women, who continue to walk to streets in the hot sun carrying the baby. Such babies are perhaps rented out from beggar to beggar

What You can Do

Simply giving money to the child beggars and their mothers on streets will not help solve the issues with them. If possible, in such cases buy food for the child and even the women carrying the baby but please do not give cash.  I am not against giving money to beggars and believe that we should all show compassion. I am however, totally against the use of babies being used as a begging tool.

If you really want to help those less fortunate kids, provide them a better solution, like offering shelter of the government or NGO organizations.

STOP giving money to anyone carrying a baby. Put a stop to this begging with baby business. Put an end to kidnapping and child abuse.

Travelers are also cautioned to be careful of small children who walk around the streets begging. Some of these children appear to be only five or six years old. There are reports of these children stealing purses and chains etc. and running away in the crowds.

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Posted by on November 14, 2014 in Experiences of Life., Moral Stories

 

✻ღ’✶♪.✻ ✿ Are we really free in India??✿.ღ’✶♪*.✻


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

Article by Common MAN…

The nation is celebrating the 68th Independence Day. The people are ready to express their patriotic feelings in one way or the other. But the common MAN are still waiting to see a free India.

On 15th August, I suddenly see the TV channels, radio stations, POLITICindia-bleeding-_4IANS and even the magazines and the newspapers off loading information about Independence day, freedom and patriotism, they reinforce the fact that each one of us should really take pride in the fact that we are a free country.  

I just wonder, how short is the public memory or is it just me who feels in a country where every second day there is a case of honour killing, caste discrimination, regional discrimination and words scheduled caste and dalits are still a common parlance, what freedom are really talking about.

If i forget the larger picture, even after 68 yrs of independence WOMEN dont feel like stepping out of the house alone after 8, what freedom are we talking about, when there is a rape happening every 10 minutes somewhere in the country, why are we even celebrating this freedom?

I just wonder, politicians fighting like STRAY DOGS, saying these people don’t belong to our region or don’t belong to our place, then where we are from?

I don’t think so we are free at all, especially for a woman in this country being free is an after thought as there are too many things that is still keeping women in dark, But on a contrary note also people here are free to indulge in as much bribery & corruption, as one likes. There, the words Dalits, caste, religion etc. don’t mean anything. You can even commit murder & get away with it.

Are we really free in India??

india-bleeding-pradnya-chavanIndependence is a word useful for politicians on August 15, who take seriously. We all know it by now and there is no sense in acting as if we don’t: August 15 is just another holiday. The malls will be full, new films will be released and the middle class will eat out as if it is not going to get another meal. This day truly illustrates how much in-dependent we have all become: we cannot live without an-other.

The freedom fighters fought for the freedom of the country. Now COMMON MAN is fighting for his own Freedom in the country with mean Politicians & Politics.

Whatever happens, As an INDIAN I SAY

KABHI BHI, KAHIN BHI, KUCH BHI MERI JAAN,

YAHI TO HAI MERA BHARAT MAHAAN

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Posted by on August 15, 2014 in Experiences of Life., Technical

 

Motherhood is a Gift


Each minute of our life is a lesson but most of us fail to read it. I thought I would just add my daily lessons & the lessons that I learned by seeing the people around here. So it may be useful for you and as memories for me.

Woman, you are amazing!

From the first presentation of woman to man in the Garden of Eden, the gift of who you are is nothing less than “wow!” Your dignity comes from the gift of your being, and the gift of your being created feminine. images (2)

Man saw your profound and complementary gifts right away, and rejoiced. In God’s first act of blessing humanity, the creator smiled upon and blessed the union of the first couple, encouraging them be fertile and multiply

There’s no mistaking biology. Womanly bodies are wonderfully made, and purposefully created with an empty space of a womb carried under her heart. A woman’s womb, her uterus, signals that she is made for something and someone more than herself. This reality touches a woman at her very core — physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

What’s more, a pregnant mother is entrusted with carrying an immortal soul besides her own — a soul that is destined for eternity. That’s why a woman really needs to be aware of the dignity of her feminine creation, and the sublime gift of her maternity, so she can confer that dignity on her child, and upon others through her love of life.

The gift of maternity is inherent in all women. They are predisposed to motherhood by their design. Yet, as we know, not all women bear children. Even if a woman never gives birth, a woman’s life is still inclined toward mothering. All women are entrusted with the call to care for the people within their sphere of influence. This broadens our ideas of maternity beyond gestation and lactation.

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Yes, women! Your womb is a marvelous gift, meant to be used as a tool to bear and bear a

nd bear until you die of it, with no concern whatsoever for anything else you might do with your life, for your ability to care for those children, or for what it costs you or your existing family! We’ll give lip service to your selfless devoted work raising all th

Your brain, ignore and throw away in favor of mindless obedience. Any other gifts you might have, throw away in favor of mindless and continual morality. You are a breeding machine – this is a marvelous thing to be! Cherish it! Love it! Never ever dare to do or want anything other than motherhood, because your womb should be in charge of your life, not your mind or heart or talents.ose kids (assuming you have any energy left after bearingbearingbearing until you die of it), but we won’t actually allow you any discretion as to how or when or how often to do it, not unless you want to swear lifelong celibacy (and can get your husband to approve).

Cherish Motherhood!! 🙂

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